Tomorrow’s Life Coach
Volume 3 Issue 9 - September 2004

In This Issue: Coaching Leaders

Tomorrow's Life Coach is a professional monthly online journal of the Institute for Life Coach Training that nourishes the intellect, intuition and inspiration of the personal/business coaching community. TLC continues to gain in popularity among diverse coaches and is highly recommended by Peer Resources:

"One of the best free newsletters, Tomorrow's Life Coach consists of well-researched, informative articles on a variety of key topics for coaches. While a publication of the Institute for Life Coach Training, many of the articles are written by other well-known coaches."


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Pat's Ponderings

Dear Fellow Coaches:

Coaching for leaders is a common and frequent use of coaching in today's business world. But there are leadership opportunities in everyone we coach. Leadership is evident when someone takes charge of their life, their business, and their goals. Sometimes this is seen as leading a team, a company, or a family. Leaders must inspire followers. "Followership" is something that natural born leaders need to learn since even leaders need to be led from time to time. In this issue of TLC, you will read articles about coaching leaders but you will also have the opportunity to reflect on your own leadership skills and opportunities. Where could you lead better? Who are you leading now? What would you do to be more effective as a leader? What clients do you now have that a conversation about leadership would be timely?

Happy Coaching!

Pat
Patrick Williams Ed.D., MCC
Chief Energizing Officer, ILCT
Department Chair, Professional Coaching 
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Editor's Pen

Dear Coach Colleagues:

How do coaches score as leaders? In a general sense, coaches rate well in these characteristics:

  • Authenticity
  • Open mind
  • Expanding knowledge and skills
  • Valuing others

How can coaching benefit leaders? Through the experience of working with a powerful coach, leaders can accelerate how they:

  • Effectively interact with people and systems
  • Optimize performance
  • Transition efficiently
  • Achieve personal and financial success

Our issue this month, Coaching Leaders, delivers three dynamic articles on the subject of coaching leaders in the realms of education, politics and religion. Next month's focus is Retirement and Next-Gen Coaching. November's journal will address the controversies regarding coach certification. We are looking for additional articles on these topics and marketing. Please see our Guidelines at http://www.lifecoachtraining.com/resources/newsletter/guidelines.shtml and contact me with your ideas. We would also like to hear your thoughts about this issue!

Lead with integrity,

Annette

Annette A. Miller, MBA, Executive Coach
Editor, Tomorrow's Life Coach
Graduate, ILCT
Member, ICF, CCN, IAC
Founder, LifeSync Coaching®
annette@lifesync.com
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University Offers Executive Coaching to Graduate Business Students

The prestigious University of Texas at Dallas’ School of Management is providing each executive Masters of Business Administration (EMBA) student with his or her own executive coach. In 2003, Dr. Jasper Arnold, director of the EMBA program, piloted this executive coaching approach with a sample of students, gaining extremely positive feedback. Beginning this fall, all new EMBA students will have their own executive coach and will be enrolled in a special course so that they receive academic credit for participation. 

Dr. Robert Hicks was hired this summer as the director of the executive and professional coaching program at UTD. He is a licensed psychologist with a specialty in industrial and organizational psychology. Dr. Hicks has extensive experience coaching senior executives across several industries. He is a skilled communicator, facilitator, educator, and executive coach. He is also a recognized expert in leadership development, organizational change, team development, and selection and assessment. He is the co-author of the book Creating and Maintaining Self-Managed Work Teams.

Dr. Hicks selected seven coaches in the Dallas/Fort Worth area to create a collaborative team of executive coaches to serve the EMBA students, including ILCT graduate Annette A. Miller, MBA. “Providing executive coaching to EMBA students is one of the smartest innovative ideas I’ve heard,” Miller states. She adds, “Providing coaching through a university environment will add an academic component to the coaching profession that will increase its visibility to the business world.”

The executive coaching program will focus on three deliverables: career advancement, interpersonal skill development and leadership behavior development. The Birkman Method, a well-established tool for assessing professional strengths and weaknesses, will serve as a foundation for self-discovery and coaching. The career advancement component of coaching will include data from the Birkman about the student’s interests and career goals. The interpersonal skill development will include the Birkman’s eleven windows on behavior plus group assessment and coaching around how to effectively work in groups. The leadership behavior development will center on enhancing skills of the successful executive, such as communication, influencing and decision-making.

This executive coaching service of UTD’s EMBA program has made it one of very few university programs in the nation with this added benefit. It created an attraction to new students and is anticipated to be highly successful.

Dr. Robert Hicks is director of the executive and professional coaching program at the University of Texas at Dallas (http://som.utdallas.edu/executive/exec_mba/emba_career.htm). He earned both his MS and PhD from the University of Southern California. Dr. Hicks is currently involved in several professional organizations including the American Psychological Association, Society for Psychologists in Management, the International Coach Federation, and the American Society of Training and Development. UTD is also building a coach training program and is applying for ICF accreditation. Distance learning classes and on campus classes are available now (http://som.utdallas.edu/executive/coaching).


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CRG's 3-Day Intensive Train-the-Trainer Workshop will equip you with over a dozen assessments and 100 resources that no coach should be without. For over 25 years CRG materials, models and designs have been used with professionals, and their 1 million clients in 20 countries--CRG truly knows what it takes to make a difference. Professionals who use these tools simply find that they prefer to use CRG resources more than some of the more "old standard assessments." This opportunity applies to all the coaching disciplines from relationships to business, corporate and everything in between.

Your attendance is risk free. If after attending the entire 3 days you do not feel you received value for your investment you have been our guest--guaranteed!. To register and learn more about this event please click here. If you have questions or need more information please contact CRG directly so we can respond to your inquiry. We look forward to many of you becoming certified and Licensed Associates with CRG. 

Dates: September 23-25 and November 18-20 (Vancouver, Canada), www.crgleader.com, info@crgleader.com 

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ICF Offers New Political Leadership Coaching SIG

Imagine what political campaigns will look like when candidates rely on their coach before their pollster!

The ICF recently launched the Political Leadership Coaching SIG (special interest group), a gathering place for coaches who coach or aspire to coach political leaders. The SIG grew out of a commitment made at last year's ICF conference by former ICF board member Cindy Reinhardt, MCC, to "change the political discourse by taking coaching into politics". Co-hosted by Donna Zajonc, CPC, author of The Politics of Hope: Reviving the Dream of Democracy, we seek to establish "Political Leadership Coaching" as a recognized coaching specialty. Cindy and Donna share a passion for making a positive difference in the culture of politics by using the power of coaching. "We envision a world where political leaders regularly call upon the expertise of master coaches as they grapple with the challenges of public leadership," say the co-hosts.

The SIG - open to all ICF members - is a place where others with this interest gather to share their dreams, ideas, tools, insights and experiences. Recognizing the potential for this new area of coaching, the ICF conference "Emerging Trends" track includes a session about this topic, presented by Donna and Cindy.

Donna Zajonc MA, CPC has brought nonpartisan coaching to a wide variety of candidates for public office. She was elected to serve three terms in the Oregon House of Representatives starting at the age of 28. She was her party's nomination for Secretary of State as well as campaign manager for an Oregon gubernatorial election and numerous other political campaigns. A dynamic and often controversial speaker, Donna co-founded the Bainbridge Leadership Center. Her new book The Politics of Hope: Reviving the Dream of Democracy offers "Seven Practices for Becoming a Conscious Public Leader" providing ordinary citizens as well as public servants with a firm foundation for action and leadership in this time of global change.

Cindy Reinhardt, MCC, was active in political campaigns and political organizations during her high school and college years and thought that she might like to run for public office. After graduate school, she set aside this interest to pursue a career in city planning. Twelve years ago she discovered coaching and since then she has coached business owners, professionals and non-profits. Cindy is a founding member of the ICF, served six years on the ICF Board and chaired two ICF conferences. Sensing that coaching could create positive shifts in the political culture, Cindy declared her intention to "take coaching into politics" at the Denver ICF conference last fall.

Political Leadership Coaching SIG: Establishing Political Leadership Coaching as a Recognized Coaching Specialty! Your SIG Co-Hosts: Cindy Reinhardt (cindy@successzone.com, 806-829-2105), Donna Zajonc (donna@bainbridge.net, 206-780-9300)


Announcing a New Teleconference For Coaches, Therapists and Facilitators Who Use “The Work of Byron Katie”

Are you one of the growing number of coaches, therapists or facilitators who use “The Work of Byron Katie” as a tool in your work with clients? If so, and you want to learn more about how others are using it, this 90-minute teleconference is for you. 

Katie will join us for the first part of the conference for a question and answer period. This will be followed by a sharing period in which a 10-member panel will share ideas, learnings and general thoughts about their experiences in facilitating “The Work” with clients. 

September 28, 2004
10 AM Pacific Time (11AM Mountain, 12 Noon Central, 1 PM Eastern)
90 minutes
1-646-519-5883, PIN 6583

There is no fee and no need to register in advance. Just call the bridge line on the day of the call. If you have a question for Katie e-mail Maggie Carter at inquiryone@comcast.net with your question.

If you would like to be part of the 10-person discussion panel e-mail Maggie at inquiryone@comcast.net. The topic for the panel will be: What have you learned or experienced for yourself in sharing “The Work” with clients? You will be notified in advance about your selection for either the Q and A or the Panel. Future teleconferences are scheduled for October 19th and November 9th. Times will be the same, but the bridge line number may change. 


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Leading Spiritual Leaders

“I’m jealous of you,” my friend said. 

“Why?” I asked.

“You’re a pastor; you get to talk about God all day.”

I laughed and said, “Is that what you think I do?”

When I started out in ministry, I also thought I’d be pondering God all day. I was wrong. I thought I’d be a prophet, inspiring and challenging the people. Wrong again. I thought I’d be spending my life inside a deeply spiritual community, appreciating mutual support, prayer, and love. That didn’t happen either.

Instead of talking about God all day, I listened to stories of pain, abuse, and illness. Instead of being prophet, I faced the challenge of a conflicted parish that resisted my calls for unity. Our time together was filled with arguments and disagreements. Though I knew God was in the midst of all of this, I experienced frustration: wasn’t ministry supposed to be rewarding?

I looked for support. I talked to my Bishop, my old professors, colleagues, and friends. They presented me with a mixed bag of advice, blessings, commiseration, condemnation, and hugs. When I left my first church, I wanted to support struggling spiritual leaders like myself. Now, ten years later, I fulfill that vision as a coach and an author. One of my specialties is working with spiritual leaders as a coach and seminar leader.

In the past ten years, churches and spiritual leaders have benefited from studies in family systems theory, leadership work, emotional intelligence, and the advent of coaching. Still, life in the church—like other organizations—remains challenging. The leaders I coach and speak to are discouraged, tired, and, in some cases, heading for burnout at an alarming rate. Many spiritual leaders experience a great dissonance between their visions of ministry and the realities of it. In addition, many of these ministers are getting paid to preach to a congregation about valuing God and family while living lives that do not reflect their values or their message.

In 2000, almost one-fifth of full-time clergy worked sixty or more hours a week, more than three times that of workers in all professional occupations (Occupational Outlook Handout, US Department of Labor). The Evangelical Lutheran Church in America (ELCA) recently completed a survey of its leaders for their Health and Wellness report. Here are some of the findings:

  • 70% of clergy refuse to take a vacation.
  • 60% do not allow a day off. 
  • The clergy studied were twice as depressed as the average population. In the general population, 6% of men and 12% of women report depression while 16% of male clergy and 24% of female clergy report that they are depressed.
  • 61% of Americans in the general population are overweight. 68% of the clergy surveyed for this report were either overweight or obese. 
    (The full report is available at http://www.elca.org/dm/health/; under "Resources", click on the "Ministerial Health and Wellness Report.")

Yet, despite the harrowing statistics, the clergy I coach love their work. These women and men serve their communities and bring hope to countless people. As a coach, my goal is to help leaders create lives that support their work and prevent burnout. The work I do with both Christian and Jewish clergy translates to other people who lead spiritually in other disciplines: therapists, coaches, community leaders, teachers, consultants, non-profit executives, and social workers. Because spiritual leaders are so busy, we often limit our meetings to one or two sessions per month. Here are some of the topics that my clients have found to be helpful:

  • Creating a life vision.
  • Setting and keeping priorities.
  • Making and honoring boundaries.
  • Nurturing relationships.
  • Getting and staying physically healthy.
  • Creating a daily spiritual practice.
  • Creating a lifelong learning plan.

Spiritual leaders serve others—and in the process often forget to serve themselves. Coaching spiritual leaders is about teaching them, as every flight attendant does, to “attach [their] own oxygen mask before attempting to assist others.” (The Spiritual Leader’s Guide to Self-Care by Rochelle Melander and Harold Eppley, page xiv.) Coaching provides a safe space for clergy who need to learn this. It works. I see my clients set boundaries, lose weight, have difficult conversations, and work smarter. In the end, these leaders are able to be both prophet and pastor, enjoying healthy, mutual support inside their churches. 

Copyright 2004 Rochelle Y. Melander

Rochelle Y. Melander is an author, speaker, and personal coach. She earned her Master of Divinity and Master of Sacred Theology degrees from the Lutheran Seminary Philadelphia. She is a graduate of Coach U and has studied family systems theory at the Center for Family Process. Together with Harold Eppley, she is the author of six books including The Spiritual Leader’s Guide to Self-Care (http://www.Alban.org) and Our Lives Are Not Our Own: Saying “Yes” to God (http://www.augsburgfortress.org). For a free coaching session or to subscribe to her free e-mail newsletter, visit Rochelle at http://www.liferhymecoaching.com or e-mail her at rochelle@liferhymecoaching.com


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