Tomorrow’s
Life Coach
Volume 3 Issue 9 - September 2004
In This Issue: Coaching Leaders
Tomorrow's Life Coach is a professional
monthly online journal of the Institute for Life Coach
Training that nourishes the intellect, intuition and
inspiration of the personal/business coaching community.
TLC continues to gain in popularity among diverse
coaches and is highly recommended by Peer
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coaches. While a publication of the Institute for
Life Coach Training, many of the articles are written
by other well-known coaches."
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Pat's
Ponderings
Dear Fellow Coaches:
Coaching for leaders is a common and frequent use of coaching in
today's business world. But there are leadership opportunities in
everyone we coach. Leadership is evident when someone takes charge
of their life, their business, and their goals. Sometimes this is
seen as leading a team, a company, or a family. Leaders must inspire
followers. "Followership" is something that natural born
leaders need to learn since even leaders need to be led from time
to time. In this issue of TLC, you will read articles about coaching
leaders but you will also have the opportunity to reflect on your
own leadership skills and opportunities. Where could you lead better?
Who are you leading now? What would you do to be more effective
as a leader? What clients do you now have that a conversation about
leadership would be timely?
Happy Coaching!
Pat
Patrick Williams Ed.D., MCC
Chief Energizing Officer, ILCT
Department Chair, Professional Coaching
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Editor's
Pen
Dear Coach Colleagues:
How
do coaches score as leaders? In a general sense, coaches
rate well in these characteristics:
- Authenticity
- Open mind
- Expanding knowledge and skills
- Valuing others
How can coaching benefit leaders?
Through the experience of working with a powerful coach,
leaders can accelerate how they:
- Effectively interact with people
and systems
- Optimize performance
- Transition efficiently
- Achieve personal and financial
success
Our issue this month, Coaching Leaders,
delivers three dynamic articles on the subject of coaching
leaders in the realms of education, politics and religion.
Next month's focus is Retirement and Next-Gen Coaching.
November's journal will address the controversies regarding
coach certification. We are looking for additional articles
on these topics and marketing. Please see our Guidelines
at http://www.lifecoachtraining.com/resources/newsletter/guidelines.shtml and
contact me with your ideas. We would also like to hear
your thoughts about this issue!
Lead with integrity,
Annette
Annette A. Miller, MBA, Executive
Coach
Editor, Tomorrow's Life Coach
Graduate, ILCT
Member, ICF, CCN, IAC
Founder, LifeSync Coaching®
annette@lifesync.com
http://www.lifesync.com
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University
Offers Executive Coaching to Graduate Business Students
The prestigious University of Texas at
Dallas’ School of Management is providing
each executive Masters of Business Administration
(EMBA) student with his or her own executive coach.
In 2003, Dr. Jasper Arnold, director of the EMBA
program, piloted this executive coaching approach
with a sample of students, gaining extremely positive
feedback. Beginning this fall, all new EMBA students
will have their own executive coach and will be
enrolled in a special course so that they receive
academic credit for participation.
Dr. Robert Hicks was hired this summer as the director of the executive
and professional coaching program at UTD. He is a licensed psychologist
with a specialty in industrial and organizational psychology. Dr.
Hicks has extensive experience coaching senior executives across
several industries. He is a skilled communicator, facilitator, educator,
and executive coach. He is also a recognized expert in leadership
development, organizational change, team development, and selection
and assessment. He is the co-author of the book Creating and Maintaining
Self-Managed Work Teams.
Dr. Hicks selected seven coaches in the Dallas/Fort Worth area to
create a collaborative team of executive coaches to serve the EMBA
students, including ILCT graduate Annette A. Miller, MBA. “Providing
executive coaching to EMBA students is one of the smartest innovative
ideas I’ve heard,” Miller states. She adds, “Providing
coaching through a university environment will add an academic component
to the coaching profession that will increase its visibility to
the business world.”
The executive coaching program will focus on three deliverables:
career advancement, interpersonal skill development and leadership
behavior development. The Birkman Method, a well-established tool
for assessing professional strengths and weaknesses, will serve
as a foundation for self-discovery and coaching. The career advancement
component of coaching will include data from the Birkman about the
student’s interests and career goals. The interpersonal skill
development will include the Birkman’s eleven windows on behavior
plus group assessment and coaching around how to effectively work
in groups. The leadership behavior development will center on enhancing
skills of the successful executive, such as communication, influencing
and decision-making.
This executive coaching service of UTD’s EMBA program has
made it one of very few university programs in the nation with this
added benefit. It created an attraction to new students and is anticipated
to be highly successful.
Dr. Robert Hicks is director of the executive and professional
coaching program at the University of Texas at Dallas (http://som.utdallas.edu/executive/exec_mba/emba_career.htm).
He earned both his MS and PhD from the University of Southern California.
Dr. Hicks is currently involved in several professional organizations
including the American Psychological Association, Society for Psychologists
in Management, the International Coach Federation, and the American
Society of Training and Development. UTD is also building a coach
training program and is applying for ICF accreditation. Distance
learning classes and on campus classes are available now (http://som.utdallas.edu/executive/coaching).
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ICF
Offers New Political Leadership Coaching SIG
Imagine what political campaigns
will look like when candidates rely on their coach
before their pollster!
The ICF recently launched the Political
Leadership Coaching SIG (special interest group), a
gathering place for coaches who coach or aspire to coach
political leaders. The SIG grew out of a commitment
made at last year's ICF conference by former ICF board
member Cindy Reinhardt, MCC, to "change the political
discourse by taking coaching into politics". Co-hosted
by Donna Zajonc, CPC, author of The Politics of Hope:
Reviving the Dream of Democracy, we seek to establish "Political
Leadership Coaching" as a recognized coaching specialty.
Cindy and Donna share a passion for making a positive
difference in the culture of politics by using the power
of coaching. "We envision a world where political leaders
regularly call upon the expertise of master coaches
as they grapple with the challenges of public leadership," say
the co-hosts.
The SIG - open to all ICF members - is a place where others with
this interest gather to share their dreams, ideas, tools, insights
and experiences. Recognizing the potential for this new area of
coaching, the ICF conference "Emerging Trends" track includes a
session about this topic, presented by Donna and Cindy.
Donna Zajonc MA, CPC has brought nonpartisan coaching
to a wide variety of candidates for public office. She
was elected to serve three terms in the Oregon House
of Representatives starting at the age of 28. She was
her party's nomination for Secretary of State as well
as campaign manager for an Oregon gubernatorial election
and numerous other political campaigns. A dynamic and
often controversial speaker, Donna co-founded the Bainbridge
Leadership Center. Her new book The Politics of Hope:
Reviving the Dream of Democracy offers "Seven Practices
for Becoming a Conscious Public Leader" providing ordinary
citizens as well as public servants with a firm foundation
for action and leadership in this time of global change.
Cindy Reinhardt, MCC, was active in political campaigns and political
organizations during her high school and college years and thought
that she might like to run for public office. After graduate school,
she set aside this interest to pursue a career in city planning.
Twelve years ago she discovered coaching and since then she has
coached business owners, professionals and non-profits. Cindy is
a founding member of the ICF, served six years on the ICF Board
and chaired two ICF conferences. Sensing that coaching could
create positive shifts in the political culture, Cindy declared
her intention to "take coaching into politics" at the Denver ICF
conference last fall.
Political Leadership Coaching SIG: Establishing Political
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SIG Co-Hosts: Cindy Reinhardt (cindy@successzone.com,
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Announcing
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Facilitators Who Use “The Work of Byron Katie”
Are you one of the growing number of coaches,
therapists or facilitators who use “The
Work of Byron Katie” as a tool in your work
with clients? If so, and you want to learn more
about how others are using it, this 90-minute
teleconference is for you.
Katie will join us for the first part of the conference for a question
and answer period. This will be followed by a sharing period in
which a 10-member panel will share ideas, learnings and general
thoughts about their experiences in facilitating “The Work” with
clients.
September 28, 2004
10 AM Pacific Time (11AM Mountain, 12 Noon Central, 1 PM Eastern)
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There is no fee and no need to register
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If you would like to be part of the 10-person discussion panel e-mail
Maggie at inquiryone@comcast.net. The topic for the panel will be:
What have you learned or experienced for yourself in sharing “The
Work” with clients? You will be notified in advance about
your selection for either the Q and A or the Panel. Future teleconferences
are scheduled for October 19th and November 9th. Times will be the
same, but the bridge line number may change.
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Leading
Spiritual Leaders
“I’m jealous of you,” my
friend said.
“Why?” I asked.
“You’re a pastor; you
get to talk about God all day.”
I laughed and said, “Is that
what you think I do?”
When I started out in ministry, I
also thought I’d be pondering God all day. I was
wrong. I thought I’d be a prophet, inspiring and
challenging the people. Wrong again. I thought I’d
be spending my life inside a deeply spiritual community,
appreciating mutual support, prayer, and love. That
didn’t happen either.
Instead of talking about God all
day, I listened to stories of pain, abuse, and illness.
Instead of being prophet, I faced the challenge of a
conflicted parish that resisted my calls for unity.
Our time together was filled with arguments and disagreements.
Though I knew God was in the midst of all of this, I
experienced frustration: wasn’t ministry supposed
to be rewarding?
I looked for support. I talked to
my Bishop, my old professors, colleagues, and friends.
They presented me with a mixed bag of advice, blessings,
commiseration, condemnation, and hugs. When I left my
first church, I wanted to support struggling spiritual
leaders like myself. Now, ten years later, I fulfill
that vision as a coach and an author. One of my specialties
is working with spiritual leaders as a coach and seminar
leader.
In the past ten years, churches and
spiritual leaders have benefited from studies in family
systems theory, leadership work, emotional intelligence,
and the advent of coaching. Still, life in the church—like
other organizations—remains challenging. The leaders
I coach and speak to are discouraged, tired, and, in
some cases, heading for burnout at an alarming rate.
Many spiritual leaders experience a great dissonance
between their visions of ministry and the realities
of it. In addition, many of these ministers are getting
paid to preach to a congregation about valuing God and
family while living lives that do not reflect their
values or their message.
In 2000, almost one-fifth of full-time
clergy worked sixty or more hours a week, more than
three times that of workers in all professional occupations
(Occupational Outlook Handout, US Department of Labor).
The Evangelical Lutheran Church in America (ELCA) recently
completed a survey of its leaders for their Health and
Wellness report. Here are some of the findings:
- 70% of clergy refuse to take a
vacation.
- 60% do not allow a day off.
- The clergy studied were twice as
depressed as the average population. In the general
population, 6% of men and 12% of women report depression
while 16% of male clergy and 24% of female clergy
report that they are depressed.
- 61% of Americans in the general
population are overweight. 68% of the clergy surveyed
for this report were either overweight or obese.
(The full report is available at http://www.elca.org/dm/health/;
under "Resources", click on the "Ministerial Health
and Wellness Report.")
Yet, despite the harrowing statistics,
the clergy I coach love their work. These women and
men serve their communities and bring hope to countless
people. As a coach, my goal is to help leaders create
lives that support their work and prevent burnout. The
work I do with both Christian and Jewish clergy translates
to other people who lead spiritually in other disciplines:
therapists, coaches, community leaders, teachers, consultants,
non-profit executives, and social workers. Because spiritual
leaders are so busy, we often limit our meetings to
one or two sessions per month. Here are some of the
topics that my clients have found to be helpful:
- Creating a life vision.
- Setting and keeping priorities.
- Making and honoring boundaries.
- Nurturing relationships.
- Getting and staying physically
healthy.
- Creating a daily spiritual practice.
- Creating a lifelong learning plan.
Spiritual leaders serve others—and
in the process often forget to serve themselves. Coaching
spiritual leaders is about teaching them, as every flight
attendant does, to “attach [their] own oxygen
mask before attempting to assist others.” (The
Spiritual Leader’s Guide to Self-Care by Rochelle
Melander and Harold Eppley, page xiv.) Coaching provides
a safe space for clergy who need to learn this. It works.
I see my clients set boundaries, lose weight, have difficult
conversations, and work smarter. In the end, these leaders
are able to be both prophet and pastor, enjoying healthy,
mutual support inside their churches.
Copyright 2004 Rochelle Y. Melander
Rochelle Y. Melander is an author, speaker, and personal coach.
She earned her Master of Divinity and Master of Sacred Theology
degrees from the Lutheran Seminary Philadelphia. She is a graduate
of Coach U and has studied family systems theory at the Center for
Family Process. Together with Harold Eppley, she is the author of
six books including The Spiritual Leader’s Guide to Self-Care
(http://www.Alban.org)
and Our Lives Are Not Our Own: Saying “Yes” to God (http://www.augsburgfortress.org).
For a free coaching session or to subscribe to her free e-mail newsletter,
visit Rochelle at http://www.liferhymecoaching.com or
e-mail her at rochelle@liferhymecoaching.com.
Tomorrow's
Life Coach
Patrick Williams, Ed.D., Publisher
Annette Miller, Editor, annette@lifesync.com
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