Tomorrow's Life Coach
Volume 5 Issue 5 – July 2006

In This Issue:

Tomorrow's Life Coach (TLC) is a monthly online journal from the Institute for Life Coach Training (ILCT) that nourishes the intellect, intuition and inspiration of the personal and business coaching community.


Pat's Ponderings: Coaching Clients on Purpose

I write this month from my hotel room in Atlanta where Lisa Kramer and I are presenting an all day Institute on Life Coaching With Couples (relationship coaching) at the Smart Marriages conference. I have presented at this conference six years in a row and it always draws a big crowd. Relationship Coaching was predicted by me in my first book, Therapist as Life Coach (http://www.lifecoachtraining.com/resources/books/books.shtml), to be a niche for the future. Well, the future is here and it is growing as a specialty area for coaching. Couples can benefit from relationship coaching, especially those whose relationship needs coaching on creating a mutual vision, or those who want to take a mediocre relationship to one that is thriving and mutually satisfying, and those who want to open conversations about what each really wants. As Lisa describes it, this is "loving with intention;" and is the theme of Conscious Relationships. Lisa teaches all of the above in her Relationship Coaching with Couples course with ILCT.

All coaching is about improving our clients' lives in whatever aspects they want, whether it is work, health, relationships, retirement, life purpose...it is all about the client and their life. Relationships are part of everyone's life in some way, and obviously, looking at the world's challenges today, it is all about relationships!

I leave you with this quote which has great meaning to me and helps explain why I am so passionate about coaching people to live their life as "on purpose" as possible.

If I accept you as you are, I will make you worse; however, if I treat you as though you are what you are capable of becoming, I help you become that. – Johann Goethe

Pat

Patrick Williams Ed.D., MCC
Chief Energizing Officer, ILCT
Director of Coach Training, Fielding International University
Department Chair, Professional Coaching, International University of Professional Studies

http://www.lifecoachtraining.com/about/pat_williams.shtml


Announcements

Introduction To Coaching As A Profession (Class)
Are you thinking about becoming a coach? Would you like to add coaching to the services you offer? Pat Williams, MCC, Founder and CEO of the Institute for Life Coach Training, is now teaching this regularly scheduled four-week teleclass, "Introduction To Coaching As A Profession."

This group will meet for 60 minutes a week for four weeks on a teleconference line. All you will need is your telephone and a quiet place to listen. Upon registration you will receive a special telephone number and access code.

During this class the following topics will be discussed:

Week 1: What is coaching? Why now? What are the current trends and growth of the industry related to professional standards, ethics, and best practices.

Week 2: Coaching skills: A six-step coaching model, TGROW coaching model, and key coaching skills with demonstrations.

Week 3: Your marketing engine and creating niche visibility.

Week 4: The future of coaching; training opportunities; your next steps.

Fee: $99
Date: September 6th or October 4th
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Pat's Coaching Forum
The monthly call for July with the founder of the Institute for Life Coach Training, Patrick Williams, MCC, will be held on Tuesday, July 25th. During this call he will discuss emerging coaching trends, interview guest experts, and have open discussions about the coaching profession.

This Free call is open to all individuals and we invite you to share this invitation with others. The call will last 60 minutes.

Date: July 25th
Time: 4:00 p.m. Eastern (3:00 p.m. Central, 2:00 p.m. Mountain, 1:00 p.m. Pacific)
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A Seminar At Sea For Coaches, Consultants, Therapists and Aligned Professionals with Patrick Williams and Lynn Meinke

 

Plan now to join Patrick Williams and Lynn Meinke for an educational cruise experience in February, 2007. This is the perfect month to escape the dark and cold months of February and come to have fun in the sun of the Caribbean, and take the trip as an educational expense. Come learn and relax at the same time...our class time will only be while at sea and will not interfere with opportunities to visit the beautiful ports of call.

(CEU's for mental health professionals and certified coaches pending)

Read more!


11th Annual ICF International Conference: Quantum Thinking on Human Potential, Tools For The New Frontier

Please join Pat, Edwina, and many of the faculty! Take advantage now of the early bird registration for the ICF Annual Conference, November 1-4, 2006, in St. Louis, Missouri, USA. Early bird registration ends July 31st.

ILCT presenter highlights:

  • Saturday November 4th, Pat Williams, Jon Benfer, Laura Whiteworth, and Donna Zajonc will be presenting From Me To We: A Conversation Challenging Individualism In Coaching.

    Coaching conversations are mostly between one coach and one client, but what if our fundamental assumptions about who that one client is were leading the world down a path of alienation and ruin? The coaches joining in this conversation have all seen the limits of coaching that focus too much on the individual...read more.

  • Saturday November 4th, Doug McKinley and Candia Dye will be presenting Strength Based Coaching - Shifting Clients To A Vision of Possibilities.

    This presentation centers on how strengths-based coaching techniques impact clients' meaningful and long-term change. Drawing on principles of positive psychology, they will explain how coaches can more effectively tap in their client's greatest potential by leveraging the client's strengths...read more.

  • Lynn Meinke, PCC and Tom Krapu, ACC will be presenting the research paper, The Life Satisfaction Survey (LSS): Development of the Instrument, at the 2006 ICF Research Symposium in St. Louis, Missouri. Other major contributors to the development of this assessment tool were Lisa Kramer, PCC and Roy Friedman, PCC.

    This assessment tool is designed by coaches for coaches and will assist coaches and clients to assess strengths, identify areas for growth, measure progress over time and point to areas that may require referral to another professional.


Read more about the conference or register now
!


Coming This Fall - A Supervision Practicum

A Supervision Practicum for coaches who want to more fully develop the art of coaching by focusing on their own coaching process with clients. In this Practicum, participants will have the opportunity to bring their own case materials for examination and exploration. Using their cases as stimuli, participants will role-play and coach each other. There will also be time for feedback, reflection and discussion. Outcomes from this approach allow participants to refine their coaching approaches and skills to fit their own unique coaching style while more fully embracing the artful, non-directive, client-centered, creativity of coaching.

The Practicum is for coaches who have completed their CLC or beyond and have accrued at least 100 hours of paid coaching experience. This Practicum can also be useful for coaches preparing for the oral examination process at the PCC Level.

The Practicum will meet weekly for one and one-half hours in small groups limited to six participants. Further information regarding the length of the Practicum and fee will be available shortly on the web site. If you have any questions, please contact Lynn Meinke at 610-876-6487 or ilct-lynnmeinke@comcast.net.


Spotlight On Classes - Advanced Skills Practicum

You’ve been through the Foundational Class and you realize that your coaching, as good as it is, could improve. We’ve all been there. It’s part of our professional development. The Advanced Skills Practicum may be the next step for you. In the Advanced Skills Practicum you continue to hone your coaching skills by working with a client over fourteen weeks in a small group setting. This class meets once a week for 90 minutes with the first and last class meeting for sixty minutes, each for a total of 20 hours. Each student coaches the client at least three times and receives verbal and written feedback which can be used towards ICF certification.

Students receive a manual with at least 30 skills fully expanded to include when each skill is useful, languaging examples, how to incorporate the skill in the coaching conversation, traps to avoid and more.

Students who have taken this class say it is one of the best they have taken. A recent student said, "I took the Advanced Skills Practicum from Lynn F. Meinke a year or so ago...Her manual builds coaching skills step by step, from basic to advanced, and each class reinforces the skills introduced in the manual for that particular week so that participants learn the theoretical and have it reinforced by the practical (which doubles the learning). If nothing else, take this course to hear masterful coaching at its finest. This course has allowed me to understand coaching better. I have more confidence in my ability to coach now."

Another student wrote the following about her experience in the Practicum, "It was such a wonder to see coaching in action. The client only saw the obstacles at first but then saw opportunities. Being in that special space, fully present with the client, is hard to describe, yet you know that that is what coaching is all about. It’s not about having the answers, not about being an expert. It’s being there, willing to dance to the music that the client is playing."

A typical response from students, including this one is, "Before registering for the "Advanced Skills Practicum", I was a little apprehensive about my coaching abilities. But I soon realized that there was really nothing to be worried about. Not only did I come away feeling more competent about applying the coaching skills, more importantly for me, I felt I could really trust and rely on myself to find my own way around coaching, finding what just fit for me. I also realized on a deeper level that I only have to be me, something I have always cherished."

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Expand Your Business! Deepen Your Coaching Skills!
Register For Upcoming Classes at ILCT

Foundational Courses

Coaching Skills & Tools

Practice Building Courses

Coaching Applications & Specialties

Additional classes, details and online registration at our course section. Some schedules may change; check listing or contact Edwina Adams, Administration/Registration, at edwina@lifecoachtraining.com.


Where In The World Is Pat Williams?

More Information

July 16-20, 2006
Stevens Point, WI
National Wellness Institute - Presenting with Lisa Kramer
Relationship Coaching. This day-long intensive will provide participants with a model for coaching couples to create a conscious relationship. Through didactic presentation, "live coaching" demonstrations, skill-building exercises and role-plays, participants will experience firsthand the power of coaching in assisting couples to move forward in their relationships.

Pat is also doing three other presentations:  Ethics In Coaching, Falling Awake (Living The Life On Purpose), and a featured presentation on "Using the coach approach across the relationship spectrum:  individuals, family, community, society and the world".

For more information: www.nationalwellness.org


July 21, 2006
Madison, WI
Life Coaching As A Unique Professional Paradigm. Presenting key ingredients for becoming a professional life coach or adding coaching as a skill set to what you already do.

This presentation will examine:

  • The history and evolution of professional coaching
  • The growth of the industry today
  • Simple strategies that will have you coaching by the end of the morning!

For more information: marykay@lifecoachmkay.com, ICF - Greater Madison Area Chapter


July 31-Aug 4 , 2006
Cape Cod, MA
New England Educational Institute
Therapist As Life Coach: Transforming Your Practice. This symposium has been designed to provide participants with an understanding of the theory, historical perspective, and practical methodology of the profession of personal and professional coaching and how it has evolved. This symposium will clarify the distinction between therapy and coaching. Participants will learn skills that are transferable from the field of therapy and skills that need to be "unlearned." This symposium has been designed for participants who would like to understand further the field of coaching and how they may incorporate it into their practice or evolve their practice into one entirely of coaching.

Live coaching demonstrations, practical experience, and interactive worksheets will be utilized to illustrate coaching principles and techniques.

For more information: www.neei.org


Editor's Corner

Taking Your Coaching Business To The Next Stage

What is success to you? How will your coaching business contribute to that success?

The answer to those questions help define your predictable path to success.

Each coaches' path will be unique. Some coaches want their business to experience slow growth, so their path will be a very slow incline; a comfortable walking trail where pleasures can be enjoyed along the way. Other coaches seek difficult challenges and hard goals--their path will be steep and rocky with a parcel of risk, but the view at the top will take their breath away. Those who crave frequent changes or new environments will create a path that winds around majestic oaks, bubbling brooks filled with carp and songbird-filled crepe myrtles. And straight paths are reserved for coaches that are highly focused on their chosen niche, who enjoy predictability and being able to see a long way down the path.

Honor YOUR definition of success and HOW you want to get there.

But my challenge to you is--move to the next stage! Whatever your pace of business growth, you need to move one foot forward, then the next, in order to stay in business. As you consider "success", what is the next action you should take to move closer to your goal?

ILCT is a powerful spark for moving to the next stage. Being a student at ILCT provides more than just absorbing knowledge. You gain MUCH more...valuable resources recommended by your instructors and peers...real-world stories about coaching...new colleagues for collaboration and potential alliances...re-evaluation of your self-care...review of ICF coaching ethics...new methods for growing your business...etc.

Go forward, move to the next stage, do it today!

To your success,
Annette

Annette A. Miller, MBA
Editor, Tomorrow's Life Coach
Life Coach, ILCT
President & Executive Coach, LifeSync Coaching
2006 Board Member, ICF-North Texas Chapter
Certified Birkman® Consultant
Member, ICF, IAC, CCN


Coaching Publications

Law and Ethics In Coaching: How To Solve And Avoid Difficult Problems In Your Practice by Dr. Patrick Williams & Sharon Anderson

Law And Ethics In Coaching is co-edited by Patrick Williams and Sharon Anderson. With contributions from a dozen academic, legal, and coaching professionals, this book is a must for anyone in the field of coaching or whose organization uses coaching as a service. Sure to be a classic!

 

Total Life Coaching: 50+Life Lessons, Skills, And Techniques To Enhance Your Practice...And Your Life by Dr. Patrick Williams MCC, Dr. Lloyd J. Thomas

Total Life Coaching is more than just a book. It is an interactive experience in which you will find recipes for living your life more authentically, as well as master time-honored lessons that you can bring to your coaching clients [or can incorporate in your own life]. Regardless of the personal coaching techniques or skills you may have learned, you may still not be the most effective coach you can become. This book will help you move closer to that goal.

Therapist As Life Coach: Transforming Your Practice
by Dr. Patrick Williams MCC, Deborah C. Davis

At last, a book for mental health professionals considering a transition into the new and dynamic field of life coaching! Therapist As Life Coach explores life coaching as a profession, examines the relationship between life coaching and therapy, and details the variety of options for professionals considering either a transition into coaching or expanding their practices to include coaching.

 


News

ILCT Wins ACTP Renewal From ICF
The Institute for Life Coach Training's application for ACTP (Accredited Coach Training Program) renewal has been approved by the International Coach Federation and is effective until May 31, 2009.

In their letter to ILCT, ICF stated:

"The ICF program reviewers were impressed with both the structure and the consistent approach of your program. Your support of your students as they strive to become excellent coaches is evident and commendable. We appreciate your dedication to the development of professional coaches."


ILCT Faculty Published in Australasian Coach Newsletter

Lisa Kramer, PCC, has published an article in the Australasian Coach newsletter, June 2006. She has written Designing the Alliance in Relationship Coaching: Key Ingredients. Lisa is a faculty member of ILCT.

Here is an excerpt: "The process of designing the alliance in relationship coaching is different from working with individual clients. Regardless of the type of relationship - be it a marriage, a business partnership, or even a parent-child relationship - the coach must establish a connection with two people simultaneously. The manner in which the coach engages the clients, partners, sets the stage for a coaching relationship that is based on mutual respect and trust..." continue reading (page 10).


Pat Williams PsychJourney Audio Bookclub Interview

Hear Pat Williams interviewed by Deborah Harper, President of Psychjourney on the topic: Therapists Transitioning To A Coaching Practice.

Listen (.mp3 file, 34 minutes, 51 seconds).


Lynn Meinke ILCT Faculty – Spotlight On Lynn Meinke

Innovative and thought-provoking, Lynn Meinke is a Professional Certified Coach with over thirty years experience assisting individuals to attain their highest potential. Lynn transitioned from being a psychotherapist to being a life coach in 1998. She trains helping professionals in the art and science of Life Coaching with The Institute for Life Coach Training and is a mentor with Coaching and Mentoring International.

Lynn graduated in the inaugural class of The Institute for Life Coach Training in 1999. She is a senior faculty member and Director of Skills Development for ILCT. Prior to becoming a life coach, Lynn was a psychotherapist specializing in women’s issues most notably trauma and dissociative disorders. Early in her career, she was trained as a Registered Nurse and was a member of an open-heart surgical team.

Lynn is a cum laude graduate of Ramapo College in Ramapo, New Jersey with a BS in Psychology. She went on to graduate with an MA in Psychology from Columbia University in New York City and did post-graduate training in psychodynamic psychotherapy at Blanton-Peale Graduate Institute in New York City. She had previously completed her nursing education at the Bryn Mawr Hospital School of Nursing, Bryn Mawr, PA.

A member of the International Coach Federation (ICF) since 1999 and co-chair of the Life Coach Committee since 2001, Lynn has presented at the 2003 and 2004 ICF Annual Conferences and the 2004 ICF European Conference in Norway. A recently submitted research project entitled, The Life Satisfaction Survey, has been accepted for presentation at the 2006 ICF Research Symposium in St. Louis. Lynn gives presentations and workshops at numerous local and regional conferences and organizations and will be co-leading "The Journey of the Soul" with Pat Williams in February 2007 as part of a cruise presented by Mind Body Cruises. She is the co-author of the Manual for the Advanced Skills Practicum and creates other advanced classes for ILCT. A new class for advanced students, Supervisor Practicum, is scheduled to be launched in the fall. (See separate article, Coming this Fall).

When asked about her coaching style Lynn replied, Clients tell me that I am their advocate, totally committed to them, and their vision carrier when they forget their dream. They say I believe in them so much that they begin to believe in themselves. They tell me that I am warm, intellectually curious, light-hearted and so intuitive that I must be psychic. My passion is coaching and working with people who want to create, design and achieve their extraordinary visions.

Lynn loves to travel and learn about different ways of being. She enjoys skiing, reading in front of the fireplace with a glass of merlot, watching and collecting movies and knitting. One of Lynn’s greatest achievements and a continuing source of joy is her 40 year marriage to Fred, a financial analyst, author, artist and new coach. She is the proud mother of three fabulous adult children and their spouses, and is a doting MoMi (grandmother) to Keenan and Jillian who are two years old. Last but not least, she is honored to have the companionship of Monet, a rescued standard Poodle who follows her everywhere.



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