Tomorrow's Life Coach (TLC) is a monthly online
journal from the Institute for Life Coach Training
(ILCT) that nourishes the intellect, intuition and
inspiration of the personal and business coaching
community.
Pat's Ponderings
Perseverance, passion, and
positive attitude. . .the three P's that lead
to success.
This month I write about two phenomena
in American television that has an international reach.
. . American Idol and Dancing with the Stars.
Now don't quit reading yet!
If you don't watch these shows, I
understand; but my wife and I love watching talented
young singers on American Idol. After you get
to the top ten, these young people are good role models
for the three P's — and have an added ingredient
of personality. It's a good feeling seeing their stories;
noting their improvement as they learn to believe in
themselves and in the grand possibilities that will
come from showcasing their talents. I am quite impressed
by this show (with some objections to grandstanding
judges and weird talent in the early days) because they
sing well, present themselves graciously, and are humble,
bright kids with good attitudes. Nothing wrong with
those ingredients!!!
The other hit show, Dancing with the Stars,
was really goofy its first season a few years ago, but
now the talent and the dancing is spectacular. The professional
dancers are all beautiful specimens of grace and elegance.
They coach their celebrities in ballroom dancing over
a number of weeks, and some of the star athletes and
performers surprise us and themselves with a maturation
in dancing and an increase in confidence as they learn
something foreign to them. It takes hours and hours
of practice, a positive attitude, and an ability to
work with a partner as a team. Watching two world class
athletes like Emmitt Smith (American football star),
and Apolo Anton Ohno (Olympic gold medallist– speed
skating) rise to become masterful dancers was an inspiring
example of the three P's.
Now, many of you reading this may think I am a bit
over the edge this month. American Idol and Dancing
with the Stars . . . are you kidding me??? But those
of you who are honest enough to admit that you are among
the millions who have watched, don't you agree that
there are lessons for all of us in perseverance, passion,
and positive attitude? We all can apply those
lessons to our desired goals and dreams. Stretch yourself
into unfamiliar territory . . . practice, get a partner
or a coach, take a class, and go for it. Whatever it
is, live your passion!
Pat
Patrick Williams Ed.D., MCC
Chief Energizing Officer, ILCT
Director of Coach Training, Fielding International University
Department Chair, Professional Coaching, International University
of Professional Studies Biography
If you have read
the book Pat would love to hear from you!
Send your review to Info@lifecoachtraining.com
With his bestselling Therapist as Life Coach,
Pat Williams introduced the therapeutic community to
the career of life coaching. Now, Williams, founder
of the Institute for Life Coach Training (ILCT), and
Menendez, senior trainer at ILCT—both master certified
coaches extraordinaire—reveal all the basic principles
and crucial strategies that they have taught to thousands
of coaches over the years. Beginning with a brief history
of the foundations of coaching and its future trajectory, Becoming
a Professional Life Coach takes readers step-by-step
through the coaching process, covering all the crucial
ideas and strategies for being an effective, successful
life coach, including:
Listening to, versus listening for, versus listening
with;
Establishing a client’s focus;
Giving honest feedback and observation;
Formulating first coaching conversations;
Asking powerful, eliciting questions;
Understanding human developmental issues;
Reframing a client’s perspective;
Enacting change within clients;
Helping clients to identify and fulfill core values,
and much, much more.
New coaching books are
appearing with greater frequency but they vary
significantly in quality. Many are poorly written
re-statements of what has appeared in other
books. Few bring fresh perspectives.
Very different is Becoming
a Professional Life Coach by Patrick Williams
and Diane Menendez. The authors draw on their
broad coaching backgrounds and experiences in
training others through the Institute for Life
Coach Training. Their book is practical, informative,
clearly written and sensitive to values even though
the writing is not from a distinctively Christian
perspective. This is a good overview for anyone
new to the coaching field and a helpful update
for experienced coaches. Gary R. Collins,
EVALUATING COACHING BOOKS Newsletter.
Pat Williams has been a pioneer & innovator
in holistic life coaching. After traveling and
sitting around the fire with Pat in Africa, I
was inspired to re-read the book that I had already
wholeheartedly endorsed. I was astonished in my
second read at the wealth of new insights to be
uncovered, even for a seasoned life coach like
me with 33-years of experience! Becoming a true
professional requires us to profess our "anthropology"-
our point-of-view on the "life" side
of coaching. This book is ripe with the wisdom
to help us do that. The evolution of our purpose,
values & beliefs must continue through all
seasons of our coaching lives. And this book is
an essential guide for the journey. I am confident
it will help shape the life coaching agenda for
decades. Richard J. Leider, Founder & Chairman
The Inventure Group, bestselling author of The
Power of Purpose, Repacking
Your Bags, & Claiming
Your Place At the Fire.
This four-day seminar is designed to provide professionals
an understanding of the theory, history and practical
methodology of professional coaching as a field. The
seminar will clarify the distinction between therapy
and coaching. Participants will learn skills that are
transferable from the field of therapy and identify
skills that need to be "unlearned" in order
to be an effective coach.
Dr. Williams developed this workshop specifically for
mental health professionals who would like to further
understand the field of coaching and how they may incorporate
coaching into their practice, or evolve their practice
into one entirely focused on coaching. Live and video
demonstrations, audio sessions, practical experience,
and interactive worksheets will be utilized extensively
to illustrate these principles and techniques.
Live coaching and video demonstrations, audio sessions,
practical experience, and interactive worksheets will
be utilized extensively to illustrate coaching principles
and techniques.
Enjoy this interactive seminar, in a beautiful part
of Italy, have fun and (if your tax professional agrees)
write off the cost of the trip!!!!
Date: Sunday, September 30th to Friday, October
5th, 2007 (six days, five nights) Credits: 16 CE credits approved Place: Sorrento, Italy
The Institute for Life Coach Training
is now offering a Relationship Coach Specialist (RCS)
Certificate. This 32-hour certificate program is designed
specifically for professionals without previous coach
training who want to specialize in relationship coaching.
It consists of two courses:
The first course consists of the first 20 hours
of the Institute’s Foundational course, our ICF Accredited Coach Training Program.
Our Foundational course was designed specifically
for therapists, counselors, human services professionals
and others with backgrounds in the people business.
It facilitates and assists those individuals who wish
to move from their current profession into coaching
and those who wish to add coaching to their current
practice.
The second course is a 12 hour advanced course that
focuses exclusively on relationship coaching with
couples.
ICF Virtual Community Call, Led by Lisa Kramer On June 11th, Lisa Kramer will be presenting From
Ordinary to Extraordinary! Relationship Coaching with
Couples at the International Coach Federation Virtual
Community Call.
Date: Monday, June 11th at 6:30 - 8 p.m. Eastern
Bridge line: 620-635-9555 participant code 197
Monthly
Pat's Coaching Forum
Pat will be interviewing Dr. Lauree Moss, CLC,
PCC who, in her capacity as adjunct faculty at the Institute,
teaches a coaching process she developed, Body-Mind
Life Coaching.™
Pat will be talking to Lauree about her mission for
over 25 years to educate people about the nonverbal
dimension of human interaction and communication. They
will also be discussing a new certificate course she
will be offering at the Institute in the Fall.
Have you lost the passion you had when you entered
the profession of being a therapist? Are you on the
fast track to burn-out or are you already there? Do
you want to add another income stream to your existing
practice? Do you want to set your own fees and get paid
what you are worth? Do you want to revitalize your work,
reclaim your passion, and find joy in doing what you
love? Join us for a free one-hour class that will introduce
you to the wonderful career of Life Coaching. We want
to share our excitement with you and give you information
that you can use to help you decide if Life Coaching
is for YOU.
Topics to be discussed:
What is Coaching?
Origins of Coaching
What Research Says Good Coaches Do
Current Status of Coaching
Why is Coaching Becoming So Popular and Needed
Now?
Benefits of Adding Coaching to Your Business
Helping Professional to Coach: 7 Success Factors
Some Similarities and Differences Between Coaching
and Therapy
Questions and Answers
Date: June 8th Time: 2:00 p.m. Eastern (1:00 p.m. Central,
12:00 p.m. Mountain, 11:00 a.m. Pacific) Registration:Click
to register
Free Coach Referral Service ILCT has begun providing a listing of our Certified
Life Coaches and graduates of our Accredited Coach Training
Program. These are coaches who have completed at least
60 to 130 hours of coach training. This is a value-added
service for those ILCT students who have reached this
high level of excellence.
This list is being offered as a free service to assist
individuals in identifying and selecting coaches best
suited for their particular situation.
Additional classes, details and online
registration at our course
section. Some schedules may change; check listing
or contact Edwina Adams, Administration/Registration,
at edwina@lifecoachtraining.com.
Where In The World Is Pat Williams?
June 24th - July 2nd
Denver, CO Smart
Marriages Conference. Pat will be presenting with Lisa
Kramer on the Power of Relationship Coaching.
July 14th - 19th
Stephens Point, WI National Wellness Institute Conference
The 2007 National Wellness Conference will be dedicated to exploring
how we can join together to understand and change shared values,
cultural norms, rewards, modeling, peer support, policies, and other
cultural influences to create supportive environments for wellness.
August 6th - 10th
Cape Cod, MA
Pat will be presenting his highly successful Therapist
as Life Coach: A Natural Transition symposium. This symposium
has been designed to provide participants with an understanding
of the theory, historical perspective, and practical methodology
of the profession of personal and professional coaching and how
it has evolved. This symposium will clarify the distinction between
therapy and coaching. Participants will learn skills that are transferable
from the field of therapy and identify skills that need to be "unlearned." This
symposium has been designed for participants who would like to further
understand the field of coaching and how they may incorporate it
into their practice, or evolve their practice into one entirely
focused on coaching. More information/registration
From the cover: "The Power of Inner Choice
explores the 12 fundamental choices and guides
you to new levels of self-awareness and possibilities.
Build the skills for integrating new momentum
into your daily life. Transform powerful theoretical
principles into commonsense applications by
engaging in the exercises. Each lesson has immediate
relevancy to anyone's life. Their cumulative
result: a higher quality of life, peace of mind,
and a life that flows more easily."
This is a very readable and practical guide
and one that lends itself very easily to your
work with clients, and especially would be
good for group coaching. Dr. Patrick Williams
"Life coaching is more
than a collection of techniques and skills.
It is more than something you do. Life coaching
reflects who you are-it is your authentic being
in action. Readers of Pat Williams's and Deborah
Davis's book, Therapist as Life Coach,
know Pat to be a gifted life coach and passionate
teacher. Here Pat and psychologist/colleague
and writer of more than 1600 newspaper columns,
Lloyd J. Thomas, build on this earlier book
and share a unique insight into the coaching
process, which shows you precisely how to enhance
your professional practices through practical
and effective life coaching. It also empowers
you to change your own lives through use of
the practical information and philosophy presented
here."
Speaking
of Success - World Class Experts Share Their
Secrets
Coming later this month!
Patrick Williams, keynote speaker, author and
professional life coach, has been selected from
a nationwide search to be featured in the first
edition of Speaking of Success; a highly
successful book series from Tennessee-based
Insight Publishing. The book also features best-selling
authors Stephen R. Covey (Seven
Habits of Highly Effective People),
Ken Blanchard (One
Minute Manager) and Jack Canfield (Co – creator
of Chicken
Soup for the Soul). Patrick Williams,
Blanchard, Covey and Canfield, are joined by
other well known authors and speakers, each
offering time-tested strategies for success
in frank and intimate interviews.
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