Tomorrow's Life Coach
Volume 6 Issue 10 – October 2007

In This Issue:

Tomorrow's Life Coach (TLC) is a monthly online journal from the Institute for Life Coach Training (ILCT) that nourishes the intellect, intuition and inspiration of the personal and business coaching community.


Pat's Ponderings

It is October and fall is in the air (except for those of you in the southern hemisphere). I always love this time as a marker for change. Change is always going to happen, but I think the marking of a quarterly seasonal change is a time to focus on both change that is happening as predicted, and change that is desired for the coming future. In the northern hemisphere, fall is a time to harvest what you have planted, and to celebrate the bounty. In the southern hemisphere fall is the time to celebrate new growth and to prepare for the beauty of spring and new development. Coaches and clients can learn much from this metaphoric look at nature.

I am training this month in Sorrento, Italy and will be witnessing harvests of grapes and olives. This type of harvest has been done for centuries. It will be inspiring to see how villagers in a very small community celebrate and endorse each other for the roles they have played in bringing vital energy from the earth into their bodies. Those of us in other parts of the world do not always recognize or acknowledge where the food that we eat comes from. I like to support organic farmers in our community and go to farmers markets. God bless them for what they do so we can enjoy the bounty on our tables.

As you begin to prepare to enjoy the change of seasons in your life and the lives of your clients, I urge to to stop and reflect IN NATURE on the beauty and bounty of wherever you live.

And as a good book to read and use with your clients, I recommend Seasons of Change by my friend and ILCT adjunct instructor Carol Mcclelland.

To the Seasons and the way they season us!

Pat

Patrick Williams Ed.D., MCC
Chief Energizing Officer, ILCT
Director of Coach Training, Fielding International University
Department Chair, Professional Coaching, International University of Professional Studies
Biography


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News & Features

Border Line – Understanding the relationship between therapy and coaching
By Patrick Williams, EdD, MCC, Choice Magazine Vol. 5, Issue 3

As the profession of life coaching evolves, it becomes more uniquely defined and described. Over the past decade, many coaches and psychologists have clarified its definition and role (Ellis, 2005; Williams and Davis, 2000; Stober and Grant, 2006; Williams and Menendez, 2007), and these distinctions continue to emerge. Increasingly, life coaching seems to be revealing itself as an evolutionary step beyond traditional therapy. Traditional therapy will not become extinct, but rather it will increasingly serve only those clients who need clinical services. On a continuum, the distinctions between the two fields might be represented as in the chart on the opposite page As the helping professions continue to evolve, more clarity will emerge regarding which helping professional is the best fit for a client’s current concern. The distinctions between traditional therapy and coaching can be considered in four broad categories.

  1. Past vs. future: Perspectives on the process. Therapy frequently focuses on the past and generally assumes the client has a problem that needs solving; coaching focuses on the future and assumes the client is whole and has the innate wisdom and tools to have a wonderful life.
  2. Fix vs. create: Why clients come to see you. Clients generally seek a therapist as a resource to fix or eliminate their problem; clients seek a coach to assist them in getting more out of their lives or creating new possibilities in their lives.
  3. Professional vs. collegial: Characteristics of the helper-client relationship. Therapy clients generally see the therapist as an expert who holds the answers and techniques to fix their problems; coaching clients see the coach as a partner to support their growth and efforts to create an even better life than they have now.
  4. Limited vs. open: How you generate new clients. Therapists are limited in the ways they can generate clients and how readily they can approach others about their services; coaches can be free and open about seeking clients and discussing their services.

Let’s take a deeper look at each of these distinctions...

Read the full article from Choice Magazine.


Gear Shift - When to refer a coaching client to a mental health professional
By Lynn Meinke, PCC, Choice Magazine Vol. 5, Issue 3

Have you ever wondered if a particular client might benefit from professional counseling or psychotherapy? Are you uncomfortable raising your concerns with the client? What indicators or patterns should you be looking for to know a referral is appropriate? These questions are important ones for any coach who wants to maintain best practices and honor the principles and ethics of the coaching profession. In June 2002 a controversial article published in the Harvard Business Review suggested that many coaches — those who lack rigorous psychological training — do more harm than good because they downplay or simply ignore deep-seated psychological problems they don’t understand. A number of psychotherapists have similarly argued that some coaches are practicing psychotherapy without a license. In fact, one state wanted coaches to register as non-licensed therapists. Thanks to the proactive leadership of the International Coach Federation, this state licensing board was educated about the philosophy, ethics and scope of practice for coaching and the need to register was dropped.

It is important that the coaching industry thoughtfully address these concerns. A clear response will solidly establish coaching as a unique profession anchored in learning and development. It will also differentiate coaching from the mental health field which has historically been anchored in the medical model of pathology...

Read the full article from Choice Magazine.


Going from Good to Great
How 30 minutes a week can re-energize your marriage.

An interview with life coach Christopher McCluskey.
by Ginger Kolbaba, Marriage Partnership, Fall 2007, Christianity Today

Your marriage doesn't have to be in trouble to benefit from an objective, encouraging third party—a life coach.

"If couples are able to address an issue, goal, desire, or vision proactively, they can head off any number of potential crises," asserts Christopher McCluskey, a master certified Christian coach who works with couples around the world, objectively encouraging and helping them see paths to growth and success.

McCluskey, whose background is in psychotherapy, worked primarily in marriage and family therapy for 12 years prior to becoming a coach. In 1998, he founded Coaching for Christian Living (www.christian-living.com). He is also the director of the Christian track at the Institute for Life Coach Training, an accredited school with the only distinctly Christian life coach training program in the world.

In the last several years life coaching has become more prominent among couples. Here's what McCluskey had to say about the rewards a couple can attain through life coaching.

Why would a couple seek a life coach?

Because they want to grow their marriage or they want to pursue a stronger or clearer vision for their family.

One of the most frequent reasons is to enhance their level of intimacy. They have a good marriage but are plateauing. They may feel their lives are scattered and out of control. And they want help getting back on track, help clarifying and living out God's unique calling on their lives.

They may need help working through obstacles to get a spouse home from the work force or a job change, or they're preparing for empty nesting or graduate school.

Another reason is blended families. A primary conflict in a blended family is children. So rather than just hold your breath and hope for the best or wait for the inevitable conflict, many blended families will work with a coach to help them proactively develop a better vision for how to blend their family and to head off the problems before they take root.

I also work with couples as they move their families into the pre-teen and teen years. A lot of parents stumble through those years never nailing down a clear vision, and they wind up having the default vision of our Western culture: simply "surviving."

They wander through those years thinking, Where do the kids need to be now? What new activities are they involved in? How am I going to deal with this new mouthiness? What am I going to do about this new group of friends they're hanging with?

They're constantly reacting to every new "crisis." And so couples become like a steel ball in a pinball machine, bouncing off whatever's screaming for their attention. That's not an effective way to do family or marriage. They need to identify what they're going to say "yes" to in their family and what they're going to say "no" to.

That's where coaching can help. A couples coach can help them catch a fresh vision and then use that vision to make it their reality...

Read the full article at: Christianity Today
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Where In The World Is Pat Williams?

October 12th - 14th
Santa Fe, NM
New England Educational Institute
Pat will be presenting his highly successful Therapist as Life Coach: A Natural Transition symposium. This symposium has been designed to provide participants with an understanding of the theory, historical perspective, and practical methodology of the profession of personal and professional coaching and how it has evolved. This symposium will clarify the distinction between therapy and coaching. Participants will learn skills that are transferable from the field of therapy and identify skills that need to be "unlearned." This symposium has been designed for participants who would like to further understand the field of coaching and how they may incorporate it into their practice, or evolve their practice into one entirely focused on coaching.

October 27th - 28th
Toronto, Ontario, Canada
OACCPP Annual Conference - Into the Future: New Horizons

October 31 - November 4th
Long Beach, CA
International Coach Federation Conference
Breakout Session: Becoming a Wise Elder Coach: Lessons From Africa, Saturday, November 3rd with Patrick Williams, MCC and Richard Leider

Based on lessons learned on Richard and Pat's recent walking safari in Africa, and interactions with tribal elders, this session offers new ways for senior coaches to renew themselves and revitalize their practices for the second half of life. The Four Flames of Vital Aging will be used during the session. Read more.


What Pat Recommends / New Books

Seasons of Change: Using Nature's Wisdom to Grow Through Life's Inevitable Ups and Downs by Carol L. McClelland

"Designed as a practical tool to help readers negotiate the seas of change, The Seasons of Change describes how important it is to view change as a naturally occurring process that is a catalyst, rather than a threat, to success.

Dr. Carol McClelland, a transition consultant specializing in guiding people through periods of transition, describes our lives as following nature's pattern of the seasons. For instance, Summer is a time for celebrating our harvest, a time when we savor our successes and take an opportunity to relax. Fall is a season to prepare for the harsh winter months and unsettling conditions that often take place around this time. Winter is a time of hibernation and renewal while Spring, of course, is a time when our energy increases and we anticipate new beginnings. By following Dr. McClelland's model, we can become conscious of our own cycles, learn to trust our feelings, and benefit from the gifts that nature offers."


Speaking of Success

Speaking of Success - World Class Experts Share Their Secrets - featuring Patrick Williams, Stephen R. Covey, Ken Blanchard & Jack Canfield

Do you want to:

  • Unlock your potential
  • Turn your life around
  • Remove mental blocks to success
  • Be the success you were meant to be?

If your answer is yes to any one of these, you need to read this book!

Those who choose to travel the road of success must also travel the road of continuing education. Success is about being prepared. Every time you read a book that contains the experiences of successful people, you are advancing on your own personal road to success whatever that work means to you.

The authors in this book will help you expand your horizons and gain a whole new perspective on how to achieve success!


Speaking of Success

Becoming a Professional Life Coach: Lessons from the Institute for Life Coach Training by Dr. Patrick Williams & Dr. Diane S. Menendez

With his bestselling Therapist as Life Coach, Pat Williams introduced the therapeutic community to the career of life coaching. Now, Williams, founder of the Institute for Life Coach Training (ILCT), and Menendez, senior trainer at ILCT—both master certified coaches extraordinaire—reveal all the basic principles and crucial strategies that they have taught to thousands of coaches over the years. Beginning with a brief history of the foundations of coaching and its future trajectory, Becoming a Professional Life Coach takes readers step-by-step through the coaching process, covering all the crucial ideas and strategies for being an effective, successful life coach, including:

  • Listening to, versus listening for, versus listening with;
  • Establishing a client's focus;
  • Giving honest feedback and observation;
  • Formulating first coaching conversations;
  • Asking powerful, eliciting questions;
  • Understanding human developmental issues;
  • Reframing a client's perspective;
  • Enacting change within clients;
  • Helping clients to identify and fulfill core values, and much, much more.
REVIEWS: Being a truly effective ally of another person requires us to know both what to do and how to be; Becoming a Professional Life Coach gives us both. While the task of creating a comprehensive training text on the broad field of life coaching is quite daunting, Patrick Williams and Diane Menendez take it on with what appears to be real joy and they master it. The reader is both instructed and inspired cover to cover. The challenge of doing more than producing another coaching "cookbook" is met and exceeded with an excellent integration of both practical technique and well grounded theory.

Becoming a Professional Life Coach integrates what is sometimes missing in much coach training, such as Prochaska's Stage of Readiness For Change. The book takes terms which have become well-worn catch phrases, such as fulfillment and empowerment, and infuses them with new life, helping the coach to truly understand their meaning, importance and their use. Becoming a Professional Life Coach will become the touchstone in the field of training life coaches. Michael Arloski, Ph.D., PCC, author of Wellness Coaching For Lasting Lifestyle Change.


I highly recommend Becoming a Professional Life Coach for both new and experienced coaches, and for anyone interested in learning the "coach approach" in their lives, business and communities. Today coaching skills are an invaluable resource, both in the workplace and for personal fulfillment, yet there are still millions that don't even know what coaching is or how to become one. Pat and Diane deliver an easy to read, comprehensive guide offering history, theory and practical application of the most potent skills used by professional life coaches worldwide. This book addresses a great need in the marketplace. . .

Since Patrick Williams is the founder of his own coaching school, I expected a cookie cutter curriculum from his own school's teachings. However, I was pleasantly surprised at how thoroughly they integrated and referenced the best disciplines from a variety of coaching schools, as well as useful and distinguished models from the field of psychology. It is no wonder that Patrick Williams is known as "The Ambassador for Life Coaching." As a veteran life coach, I applaud Patrick for inspiring thousands more to integrate a "coach approach" in their everyday lives and/or become a life coach themselves. The world could use a few more life coaches, and this is a perfect place to begin. Mary E. Allen, CPCC, MCC, Author of The Power of Inner Choice


New coaching books are appearing with greater frequency but they vary significantly in quality. Many are poorly written re-statements of what has appeared in other books. Few bring fresh perspectives.

Very different is Becoming a Professional Life Coach by Patrick Williams and Diane Menendez. The authors draw on their broad coaching backgrounds and experiences in training others through the Institute for Life Coach Training. Their book is practical, informative, clearly written and sensitive to values even though the writing is not from a distinctively Christian perspective. This is a good overview for anyone new to the coaching field and a helpful update for experienced coaches. Gary R. Collins, EVALUATING COACHING BOOKS Newsletter.

Pat Williams has been a pioneer & innovator in holistic life coaching. After traveling and sitting around the fire with Pat in Africa, I was inspired to re-read the book that I had already wholeheartedly endorsed. I was astonished in my second read at the wealth of new insights to be uncovered, even for a seasoned life coach like me with 33-years of experience! Becoming a true professional requires us to profess our "anthropology"- our point-of-view on the "life" side of coaching. This book is ripe with the wisdom to help us do that. The evolution of our purpose, values & beliefs must continue through all seasons of our coaching lives. And this book is an essential guide for the journey. I am confident it will help shape the life coaching agenda for decades. Richard J. Leider, Founder & Chairman The Inventure Group, bestselling author of The Power of Purpose, Repacking Your Bags, & Claiming Your Place At the Fire.

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