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Pat's Ponderings
The world needs global warming . . . not the environmental
kind, but the relational kind!!!! Everyday in the news
we see articles about the rapid increase of global warming
and its disastrous effects on the environment. What
if we begin to see a quickening of global warming in
the way people, individuals, families, communities,
and countries, relate to one another? What if this movement
grew so fast that it surprised everyone? What if the
walls that separate us from acting as though we cherish
and honor each other came crashing down as the icebergs
in Antarctica? What if the temperature of warmth in
all relationships began to rise?
I have had the good fortune to travel to many countries
around the globe in the last 10 years spreading the
word about coaching, both for ILCT and for the profession
at large. I have noticed that people everywhere respond
well to human friendliness despite the politics of the
countries. If you act friendly, you are treated with
friendliness. If you are courteous, you are treated
courteously. If you ask people about themselves with
non-judgmental curiosity, they respond with glee and
openness.
My belief in what the spread of authentic coaching
conversations could do for the world is enormous. What
would it take to start a coaching conversation movement
similar to what the woman in Africa who is planting
millions of trees did. Or think about the young teenagers
who started “cell
phones for soldiers” as a way for the armed service
men and women around the globe to communicate affordably
with their families.
How many other great movements have started with just “a
good idea shared with friends?” What would it
take to get coaching conversations as a buzzword on
UTube, My space, Google, Yahoo, and blogs everywhere?
I believe that people really want to feel more connected
to others and curiosity about other cultures is better
than prejudice that prevents openness to learning.
Let me know how we can start Global Warming in People’s
hearts and spread this message around the globe. December
is a time for celebrating many religious holidays, the
winter solstice, and a time of hope and desires for
peace and loving expressions.
Wouldn’t it be great if that spark kindled a huge
expression and outpouring of warmth that would begin
to shock the experts and the political leaders?
Will you help? Send
me your ideas — let’s
do something to create an increase in human global warming
in all relationships we touch!
Margaret Wheatley perhaps said it best: "Relationships
are all there is. Everything in the universe only exists
because it is in relationship to everything else. Nothing
exists in isolation. We have to stop pretending we are
individuals who can go it alone. I believe
we can change the world if we start listening
to one another again. Simple, honest, human conversation.
Not mediation, negotiation, problem solving, debate,
or public meetings. Simple, truthful conversations where
we each have a chance to speak, we each feel heard,
and we each listen well."
Pat
Patrick Williams Ed.D., MCC
Chief Energizing Officer, ILCT
Former Curriculum Consultant for the Coaching Certificate Program
of Fielding University
Department Chair, Professional Coaching, International University
of Professional Studies Biography
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ILCT is launching our long-standing
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KNOW YOUR CLIENT’S LTV
by Dr. James S. Vuocolo, Master Certified Coach and
Director of Practice Development
Sarah (not her real name) is a professional in another
state who first retained my coaching services some 10
years ago. We initially worked together for 18 months,
after which she decided it was time to retain a local
coach whom she had met at a networking meeting. I was
fine with her decision at the time, and we parted as
friends. She had been a joy to work with!
Several years later, Sarah e-mailed to ask if I was
taking on any new clients. If so, she wanted to speak
with me about working with her once again. In the course
of our subsequent conversation, she asked if I was curious
about what had happened while working with her other
coach, and why she now wished to retain my services
again. I said I would be happy to listen to anything
she might want to share in this regard.
"Well," she said, "I worked with the
other coach for about six months before I started to
feel as if I was being taken for granted. He often called
my office to reschedule our coaching sessions, and sometimes
failed to follow through with a resource or article
he said he would send. Once we stopped working together,
I never heard from him again. Then it dawned on me that
I was still receiving your newsletter, articles, and
other resources, on a regular basis even though we were
no longer working together. In fact, you even called
one year to leave a Christmas greeting with my answering
service. Once I stopped paying my other coach a monthly
retainer, I’ve never heard from him again!"
Sarah and I worked together for another two years before
taking a break. I’m happy to say that she returned,
yet again, for a third round of coaching some sixteen
months ago, and counting! In addition, she has served
as a reference, provided testimonials, and referred
other prospective clients to me over the years. In short,
she is the kind of "diamond" I would like
to clone in order to fill my practice!
One of the most important marketing concepts to understand
and appreciate is the LTV, or Lifetime Value, of your
client. The LTV is based upon the revenue a potential
client will generate over an entire lifetime of the
coaching relationship. Think about the time, money and
energy it takes you to acquire a new client. If I limited
my thinking with regard to Sarah for the initial 18
months we worked together, I would come up with one
set of numbers. However, when I take into account the
entire number of months we have worked together on three
separate occasions over the past decade, the numbers
change dramatically! Add to this the value of Sarah’s
testimonials, referrals, and potential joint venture
projects, and the overall LTV grows exponentially!
Think of it this way . . . if Sarah had
paid me $300.00 per month for the initial time of 18
months we worked together I would have earned a total
of $5,400.00. However, because we have worked an additional
25 months since that time (for a total of 58 months),
her LTV to date is more like $17,400.00 – and
that’s
before we factor in referrals and an increase in coaching
fees over the years (for the record, I don’t raise
client fees unless we are not working together for 6
months or more).
As I said, Sarah is a "diamond" of a client
who’s an absolute joy to work with! But suppose
you find a "diamond in the rough" by which
I mean a potentially terrific client who cannot pay
your regular coaching fee . . . what to do? A former
colleague once said, "If you polish a diamond in
the rough you end up with gem of great beauty and value.
If you polish a brick, you simply end up with brick
dust!" It’s still good advice to follow!
Once you find a potential client who’s a "diamond
in the rough" because they are really motivated
to work with you and are the type of client you truly
desire, make sure your fee is a detail, and not an issue,
for them. Consider offering them a "scholarship" for
the first couple of months, until they can afford your
full fee. Consider the case of John (not his true name).
John is an ideal client type who came highly motivated,
yet unable to pay a full coaching fee of $400.00. The
coach offered to gift him a $300.00 discount for one
month, so his initial fee would be $100.00. His investment
the second month would be $175.00, and go to $225.00
in month three. By month four, he would be paying the
full $400.00 fee.
Why do this? Simple – the coach knew most clients
will stay for at least 12 months or more. At $400.00
per month, John’s LTV would be $4,800.00 the first
year – but this was a non-starter for John’s
wallet. The opening scholarship totaling $700.00 over
the first 3 months, lowered his LTV over the next 12
months to $4,100.00 (or $341.66 per month) – which
represents a 12% discount, and enabled the coaching
to take place. It represented a WIN/WIN situation! Now
consider the fact that John gives the coach 2 referrals
totaling $4,800.00 each over the same 12 month period – and
his LTV just went from $4,100.00 to $13,700.00 the first
year – more than offsetting the initial scholarship
discount of 12%! If you could generate these percentages
on Wall Street you would be considered a bona fide genius!
And, once you have the right kind of "diamond" clients
in place, their referrals will help to feed your practice
for life!
It’s never a good idea to make this a common
business practice – so offer it sparingly. Otherwise,
the very factors that make it so special no longer apply,
and it can diminish your own coaching value. But the
next time you come across a diamond in the rough – go
ahead and find a way to polish it! Be committed to making
the relationship work. But remember, a brick in the
rough can never be polished. It turns to dust in the
attempt, and will potentially have the same result on
your coaching business! Only you can know the genuine
LTV of your clients. Happy marketing!
ILCT
Staff in the News - Christopher McCluskey, PCC
Christian Coaching Gaining in
Popularity,
Reported by: Carlos Correa at OzarksFirst.com
Many people from all over the country and with different
denominations are getting help building a stronger relationship
with God. Christian coaching is a field that has a growing
interest among many people in the faith community.
The interest in Christian coaching is increasing because
it's all done online and over the phone. So the convenience
for clients is they never have to worry about getting
a babysitter or even spend money on gas since they don't
meet a coach face to face.
From his country home in Edgar Springs, Missouri, Christian
coach Christopher McCluskey is able to balance his family
life with his career.
"Life coaching is a relatively new field. It's
been around maybe 15 or so years. You go back much further
in the literature and you won't find much written about
on it." says McCluskey.
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Where In The World Is Pat Williams?
December 17-18, 2007 Third
National Coaching Psychology Conference
The
British Psychological Society, City
University London
MasterClass: Transpersonal Psychology
Redux: Purpose, Meaning and
States of
Consciousness in
Whole Person
Coaching with Dr. Patrick Williams. Read
more.
February 22-23, 2008
CTGV Meeting
Glenwood Springs, CO
In 2006, U.S. News and World Report listed
coaching as one of the 10 top growing professions.
The first edition of Therapist as Life Coach,
published in 2002, anticipated this trend, and
since its publication it has become a standard
for therapists who wish to transition or expand
their practices into life coaching. Pat Williams
and Deborah C. Davis have revised their classic
practice-building book for today's therapists
and future coaches. Every chapter in this second
edition has been updated and rewritten, reflecting
the growth of the coaching field and its increasing
appeal to not only therapists, but all helping
professionals.
If your answer is yes to any one of
these, you need to read this book!
Those who choose to travel the road of success
must also travel the road of continuing education.
Success is about being prepared. Every time
you read a book that contains the experiences
of successful people, you are advancing on your
own personal road to success whatever that work
means to you.
The authors in this book will help you expand
your horizons and gain a whole new perspective
on how to achieve success!
With his bestselling Therapist as Life Coach,
Pat Williams introduced the therapeutic community
to the career of life coaching. Now, Williams,
founder of the Institute for Life Coach Training
(ILCT), and Menendez, senior trainer at ILCT—both
master certified coaches extraordinaire—reveal
all the basic principles and crucial strategies
that they have taught to thousands of coaches
over the years. Beginning with a brief history
of the foundations of coaching and its future
trajectory, Becoming a Professional Life
Coach takes readers step-by-step through
the coaching process, covering all the crucial
ideas and strategies for being an effective,
successful life coach, including:
Listening to, versus listening for, versus
listening with;
Establishing a client's focus;
Giving honest feedback and observation;
Formulating first coaching conversations;
Asking powerful, eliciting questions;
Understanding human developmental issues;
Reframing a client's perspective;
Enacting change within clients;
Helping clients to identify and fulfill
core values, and much, much more.
REVIEWS:Being
a truly effective ally of another person
requires us to know both what to do and
how to be; Becoming a Professional Life Coach gives us both.
While the task of creating a comprehensive
training text on the broad field of life
coaching is quite daunting, Patrick Williams
and Diane Menendez take it on with what
appears to be real joy and they master it.
The reader is both instructed and inspired
cover to cover. The challenge of doing more
than producing another coaching "cookbook" is
met and exceeded with an excellent integration
of both practical technique and well grounded
theory.
Becoming a Professional Life Coach integrates
what is sometimes missing in much coach
training, such as Prochaska's Stage
of Readiness For Change. The book takes
terms which have become well-worn catch
phrases, such as fulfillment and empowerment,
and infuses them with new life, helping
the coach to truly understand their
meaning, importance and their use. Becoming
a Professional Life Coach will become
the touchstone in the field of training
life coaches. Michael Arloski, Ph.D.,
PCC, author of Wellness
Coaching For Lasting Lifestyle Change.
I highly recommend Becoming
a Professional Life Coach for
both new and experienced coaches, and
for anyone interested in learning the "coach
approach" in their lives, business
and communities. Today coaching skills
are an invaluable resource, both in
the workplace and for personal fulfillment,
yet there are still millions that don't
even know what coaching is or how to
become one. Pat and Diane deliver an
easy to read, comprehensive guide offering
history, theory and practical application
of the most potent skills used by professional
life coaches worldwide. This book addresses
a great need in the marketplace. . .
Since Patrick Williams is the founder
of his own coaching school, I expected
a cookie cutter curriculum from his
own school's teachings. However, I was
pleasantly surprised at how thoroughly
they integrated and referenced the best
disciplines from a variety of coaching
schools, as well as useful and distinguished
models from the field of psychology.
It is no wonder that Patrick Williams
is known as "The Ambassador for
Life Coaching." As a veteran life
coach, I applaud Patrick for inspiring
thousands more to integrate a "coach
approach" in their everyday lives
and/or become a life coach themselves.
The world could use a few more life
coaches, and this is a perfect place
to begin. Mary E. Allen, CPCC, MCC,
Author of The
Power of Inner Choice
New coaching books
are appearing with greater frequency but
they vary significantly in quality. Many
are poorly written re-statements of what
has appeared in other books. Few bring
fresh perspectives.
Very different is Becoming
a Professional Life Coach by Patrick
Williams and Diane Menendez. The authors
draw on their broad coaching backgrounds
and experiences in training others through
the Institute for Life Coach Training. Their
book is practical, informative, clearly
written and sensitive to values even though
the writing is not from a distinctively
Christian perspective. This is a good overview
for anyone new to the coaching field and
a helpful update for experienced coaches. Gary
R. Collins, EVALUATING COACHING BOOKS Newsletter.
Pat Williams has been
a pioneer & innovator in holistic life
coaching. After traveling and sitting around
the fire with Pat in Africa, I was inspired
to re-read the book that I had already wholeheartedly
endorsed. I was astonished in my second
read at the wealth of new insights to be
uncovered, even for a seasoned life coach
like me with 33-years of experience! Becoming
a true professional requires us to profess
our "anthropology"- our point-of-view
on the "life" side of coaching.
This book is ripe with the wisdom to help
us do that. The evolution of our purpose,
values & beliefs must continue through
all seasons of our coaching lives. And this
book is an essential guide for the journey.
I am confident it will help shape the life
coaching agenda for decades. Richard
J. Leider, Founder & Chairman The Inventure
Group, bestselling author of The
Power of Purpose, Repacking
Your Bags,& Claiming
Your Place At the Fire.
Creating a Life is a powerful commentary on the
importance of the examined life, illustrating
how we may arrive at an understanding of our life
choices and relationships by exploring our core
complexes and personal history.
With insight and compassion grounded in the humanist
side of analytical psychology, Hollis elucidates
the circuitous way of individuation. The text
is deeply enriched by the inclusion of poems and
excerpts from the works of many modern writers.
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