Tomorrow's
Life Coach
Volume 8 Issue 8 – August, 2009
In This Issue:
Pat's
Ponderings ~ Patrick Williams, Ed.D.,
MCC
- Monthly
- News & Features
- Upcoming Classes at ILCT
- What Pat Recommends - Innovations in Clinical Practice: A 21st Century Sourcebook by Jeffery B. Allen (Editor), Eve M. Wolf (Editor), Leon VandeCreek (Editor), and Total Life Coaching by Dr. Patrick Williams MCC and Dr. Lloyd J. Thomas
Tomorrow's Life Coach (TLC) is a monthly online
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(ILCT) that nourishes the intellect, intuition
and inspiration of the personal and business
coaching community.
Pat's Ponderings - Back to Basics - Total Life Coaching
With all the upheaval in the world I thought it was time to reflect back on the basics of our profession. I want to share parts of the Introduction to my book Total Life Coaching that I co-authored with Lloyd Thomas.
Life coaching is more than a collection of techniques and skills. It is more than something you do. Life coaching reflects who you are. It is your authentic being in action within a specific relationship. Who you are, your personhood, is the basis for effective life coaching. Coaching is rooted in your being, not in your personal abilities. You coach because of who you are.
As life coaches and writers, our intention is twofold: (1) to assist you to develop your personal, effective combination of coaching skills that you require to be successful in creating your desired outcomes within your own life; and (2) to enhance your coaching skills so that you become the catalyst for your clients becoming as successful as they genuinely desire to be. The coaches not only create their own desired outcomes, they will also coach others "from the inside out,"…a coaching style that is much more effective than any other. Life coaching is more about "being a coach" than "doing coaching."
Regardless of the personal coaching techniques or skills you may have learned, you may still not be the most effective coach you can become. We define effective coaching as authentic self-expression in the coach/client relationship so that you catalyze the clients’ manifestation of their own desired outcomes. Coach training usually focuses on the learning of "techniques" to influence the behavior of clients. Total Life Coachingaddresses such questions as: From whom do these coaching techniques emanate? What makes a good coach great? How can coaches incorporate techniques into their personalities, so they authentically contribute to their clients’ well-being? What lessons, taken from human history, can be learned by coaches and clients, to realize their potential as professionals and as people? How might these lessons be effectively and authentically coached? How authentic are you as a life coach? How catalytic of others’ development is your self-expression? How effectively do your clients’ attain the results they really want?
Have you designed your life the way you want? If your deepest desires were fulfilled, how would your life change? Formal education neglects at least seven essential areas of learning:
- how to learn best
- how to maximize your wellness
- how to live your life "on purpose"
- how to design and create the life you desire
- how to be a catalyst for others’ growth and development
- how to be a good spouse
- how to be an effective parent
After our formal education, we spend about 90-95 percent of our time functioning within these seven areas. Total Life Coaching specifically focuses on these areas. Life coaching is really filling the void in our formal education.
We usually take for granted the human skills of learning and creating. We rarely study them or consciously choose to strengthen them. We may teach a specific content and expect the student will learn it. We may teach "creativity" and expect to produce new ideas and outcomes. But we fail to teach the individual the exact way he/she learns. We don’t teach people how to discover who they really are. We don’t teach them:
- self-awareness
- living within their own integrity
- spirituality and life-purpose
- social/relationship skills
- how to achieve their potential
- how to contribute their unique gifts to society
- how to creatively benefit from change
- how to use their personal strengths to overcome their weaknesses
In other words, we don’t teach/coach how to design and implement a fulfilling life!
Life is continuously providing us with information or "messages." When we do not listen, the messages become lessons. When we do not learn, the lessons become problems. When we don’t address the problems, they become crises. When crises go unresolved, they create chaos in our lives. Great coaches seek to live on the levels of messages and lessons, not waiting for them to become problems, crises and reactions to chaos. They also strive to have their clients live at that same level.
As always.
Dr. Pat
Patrick Williams Ed.D., MCC
Chief Energizing Officer, ILCT
Department Chair, Professional Coaching, International University
of Professional Studies
Author: Becoming
a Professional Life Coach. Therapist
as Life Coach, Total
Life Coaching,
Law and Ethics in Coaching
Recipient of Global Visionary Fellowship for Non Profit www.CoachingTheGlobalVillage.org
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News & Features
Coaching the Global Village Benefit Dinner in Loveland, CO
The Board of Directors of Coaching the Global Village
is hosting a benefit dinner for
Patrick Williams' nonprofit global iniative Coaching The Global Village!
Wednesday September 16, 2009 at 6:00 p.m.
The Fountains of Loveland, 1480 Cascade Avenue
Loveland, CO 80538
Pat was named the first Global Visionary Fellow by the Foundation of Coaching for his project to take the power of life and leadership coaching to the underprivileged of the world, both abroad and here in the United States. They hope you will come and support this event with your presence, your funds and your contacts, as well as for an update on how the organization is working around the world!
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A Testimonial from the Smart Marriages Conference
On July 7th & 8th in Orlando, Florida, Pat Williams, Ed.D. and Mike Lillibridge, Ph.D. spoke at the 13th Annual Smart Marriages Pre-Conference Institutes on the topic Life Coaching With Couples: The NEW Profession. Their topic included the basics of Life Coaching, the PEOPLEMAP personalities assessment, and the skills to coach couples to create a more fulfilling relationship.
Attendee Daphne Calver said:
Dear Pat,
I just want to say that I thoughly enjoyed learning from you and Mike at Smart Marriages. I hope to take more of your courses one day.
I would like it if you could send us the coaching package info that you said you would send if we would just email and ask.
Thank you so much for the training and passing along your knowledge to others. It was awesome.
Changes to ILCT's ACTP program:
We have added one class to our list of Required Classes, which will be applicable ONLY to those students who enter our program after August 1st.
We have added a Supervision Class which is designed for those coaches who are committed to their professional development, who want to become more masterful and offer their clients exceptional coaching. It can also be used as a step in preparing for the PCC oral exam.
We have also made changes to our web site in the hopes of providing clearer information to prospective students.
Changes to our Certified Life Coach Credential (CLC):
We have also restructured our Certified Life Coach credential. As of August 1st, we will require 80 hours of coach training and 100 hours of client coaching experience to obtain a Certified Life Coach credential. We are also requiring students to renew their credentials every three years.
For information on the new requirements, please click here.
Body-Mind Life Coaching™: Using the Body to Deepen Awareness and Forward the Action
Join Dr. Lauree Moss, MSW, Ph.D., PCC to learn more about this exciting new certificate course, which begins on September 8, 2009 for 16 weeks. Using Body-Mind Life Coaching™ tools, coaches will learn ways to work with the powerful messages of the body. It is said that the body never lies. Through habitual ways of thinking, acting and feeling, there is often a disconnection between the mind and body. Coaches, in any niche, who are interested in learning more about how to integrate non-verbal dimensions into their coaching, will gain invaluable skills and tools.
Dr. Moss will discuss:
- What is Body-Mind Life Coaching™
- Skills and tools taught in the class
- Ways to use (2) specific tools that are integrated throughout the class: Breath & Mindfulness
- Case examples
- What you will gain personally and professionally by getting this certificate.
Call Date: Tuesday, August 11, 2009
Time: 7:00 p.m. (60 minute call) Eastern/New York, Toronto time, which is
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A Special Request for the Coaching Profession
Please consider forwarding this Coaching Research request to your students.
Thanks,
Patrick Williams
Dear Colleagues,
I am asking a special request to all the coaches who I have come into contact with over the years. This is a very important cause. I request that you distribute this to all of the coaches you know, especially if you represent a group of coaches or a coaching school. This research study could really impact the coaching profession and your participation is essential to its success.
Practitioners who call themselves coaches come from a wide variety of backgrounds, training and professional experiences. While there are numerous forms of credentials, there is little empirical data to document the developmental road that coaches follow from novice to expert. Similarly, there is little systematic evidence to ground the various certificate designations with well-supported models of coaching mastery.
You are invited to help change this and make a contribution to the knowledge base of coach training and development. The Collaborative Coaching Research Network developed a long-term, international project to investigate and gather data on the various aspects of a coach’s developmental process and to provide some evidence for relevant theories and models. Our confidential survey seeks to gather information about varied facets of a coach’s background and work experience. Our questionnaire was piloted and, based on feedback, we made some revisions for the final version which we are now launching.
Anonymous survey responses will be collected and analyzed by members of the Collaborative Coaching Research Network (Deepa Awal, Francine Campone, Mark Hanna, Tom Krapu, David Orlinsky, and Linda Page) .We hope this project will help to answer several questions about the development of coaches. These include but are not limited to:
- understanding the backgrounds, training, on-going work and professional development activities which contribute to the maturation of coaching skills
- gaining insight into similarities and differences in the development of coaches as compared with psychotherapists and other related professionals
- gaining insight into the role of experience in the development of mastery
- identifying the elements of development which might be appropriately incorporated into models and standards for coach training and education
Please visit the webpage: http://www.surveymonkey.com/s.aspx?sm=EqeMi7yw5AqTeogjuCRRZw_3d_3d and enter your responses. We also ask that you forward this invitation to anyone you know who practices coaching. Our intention is to get the broadest possible variety of respondents. At the end of the survey, you can sign up to receive updates on the progress of the study. Thank you so much for your time and contribution!
Sincerely,
Tom Krapu
In case you missed it:
Credentialing as a Coach: Pros and Cons, Part 2 with Dr. Patrick Williams and Sara Oberg, Marketing Manager of CPH & Associates, July 30, 2009
Listen to a recording of this call.
Pat's Coaching Forum - Health and Wellness Coaching: What Do You Need to Be a Player?
Dr. Patrick Williams and Jim Strohecker, CEO and Co-founder of HealthWorld Online (www.healthy.net) July 2, 2009
Listen to a recording of this call.
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What Pat Recommends
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Innovations in Clinical Practice: A 21st Century Sourcebook by Jeffery B. Allen (Editor), Eve M. Wolf (Editor), Leon VandeCreek (Editor)
The next generation of Innovations in Clinical Practice combining the best features of both the old Source Book series and the newer Focus series to bring you the latest techniques and innovative strategies for your clinical practice.
NOTE: SECTION IV: Community Interventions contains a chapter on Developing a Life Coaching Practice by Dr. Patrick Williams, Ed.D. MCC. |
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Total Life Coaching: 50+ Life Lessons, Skills, and Techniques to Enhance Your Practice...and Your Life by
Dr. Patrick Williams MCC and Dr. Lloyd J. Thomas
Life coaching is more than a collection of techniques and skills. It is more than something you do. Life coaching reflects who you are-it is your authentic being in action. Readers of Pat Williams's and Deborah Davis's book, Therapist as Life Coach, know Pat to be a gifted life coach and passionate teacher. Here Pat and psychologist/colleague and writer of more than 1600 newspaper columns, Lloyd J. Thomas, build on this earlier book and share a unique insight into the coaching process, which shows you precisely how to enhance your professional practices through practical and effective life coaching. It also empowers you to change your own lives through use of the practical information and philosophy presented here.
Total Life Coaching is organized into a series of 52 life lessons, and is designed to be either read cover-to-cover or dipped into, as needed, for assistance when conducting a coaching session. Keeping life's processes on the "message and lesson" level makes living and life coaching much easier and more enjoyable. Total Life Coaching guides you step-by-step through the complex process of learning and coaching these important lessons.
Review:
Thank you, Pat Williams, for writing Total Life Coaching. It is a wonderful resource book that every coach should have at their fingertips, whether they have been coaching one year or many years. It is not just one of the many books on general coaching philosophy and techniques. Total Life Coaching is written with a "how to" approach. It is organized into a wide rage of categories of coaching topics. Each category contains a rich menu of information, exercises, creative coaching approaches, and examples of coaching conversations. I know I will be using the wisdom of Total Life Coaching for every client I have. Diana Kilinski, LPC, CEAP, Business and Life Coach, Savvy Life Skills, LLC |
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