Tomorrow's
Life Coach
Volume 2 Issue 5 : May 2003
In This Issue: Global Coaching
Upcoming Classes at
ILCT
Pat's Ponderings
Editor's Pen
The Culturally Aware Coach ~ Marilyn O'Hearne
Coaching in Canada ~ Juliet Austin
Coaching in Singapore ~ Ronald Tan
Going Global, and Doing It Well ~ Dr. Michael
Arloski
The World is Our Community...Come Join Us! ~
Robert McCall, D.Min.
Coaching: A European Perspective ~ Center
for Creative Leadership
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Pat's Ponderings
With this issue of TLC being focused
on Global Coaching, my thoughts turn to the joyfulness
I have experienced since I transitioned into coaching
full-time in 1996. I have had clients in 5 foreign countries
and ILCT has had students from 9 foreign countries and
5 continents. It
is fascinating to me to have made contacts around the
world, many of whom I have not even met in person! I
have attended all 3 ICF European Coaching conferences
and have made some really good friends from those events--I
never imagined these possibilities when I was a clinical
psychologist. My
business did not promote travel opportunities and I
did not attend conferences outside of North America.
As each of you build your coaching
business, remember that people in your geographic region
know other people around the world who might like to
coach with you. Long distance rates are so economical
worldwide that you can be a coach to almost anywhere
in the world!
Read about some of the unique features
of a global coaching business in this exciting issue
of Tomorrow's Life Coach! As you read this, I will be
attending and presenting in London on May 3rd and
in Italy on May 8th-10th.
Pat
Patrick Williams Ed.D., MCC
Chief Energizing Officer, ILCT
Colorado, USA
Editor's Pen ~
Focus: Global Coaching
It's almost shocking to realize how
far technology has brought us in the past two years,
especially for the life of a coach. Many coaches function
fully in their professional role with a phone and computer
and no (or limited) live appointments. Virtually, we
have developed communities and satisfying relationships
that span huge distances. But as each day passes, we
are experiencing a world that is changing quicker and
moving faster. Could our most significant contribution
to the world be our skills in helping people and organizations
handle change more effectively? We are excited to bring
you the following six exciting articles on "Global
Coaching"!
Next month's focus: Unusual Coaching
Niches. I'm counting on YOU to send me names of coaches
with unique niches! (We would also consider articles
from coaches with clearly defined niches that are not
necessarily unusual.) Don't hesitate on this one--just
think how much fun this particular issue can be! Articles
need to be submitted by May 30. Please read the simple guidelines
for submissions. The focus for July is "Passive
Revenue" (deadline June 30)--please let me know
by June 1 if you are interested in sending in a submission
on this topic.
Virtually serving you with care,
Annette
Annette A. Miller, MBA
Flower Mound, Texas, USA
annette@lifesync.com
Editor, Tomorrow's Life Coach
Graduate, ILCT
President, LifeSync Coaching (www.lifesync.com)
Authorized Affiliate, Extended DISC of North America--on-site certification
workshops and live/virtual outsourcing with the world's fastest
growing assessment system!
The Culturally
Aware Coach
Our
world is shrinking! Thanks
to long distance learning, ILCT has had 70 international
students participate in training, with 16 currently
enrolled. That is about 8% of our total student population. And the International Coach Federation has over
191 chapters in 36 countries. What
can a coach do to make sure that their words, behavior,
and coaching approach are appropriate for and respectful
of their clients' and colleagues' cultures?
As
I review the ILCT manual and books prior to co-leading
the Foundational classes, I am struck by how the coaching
concepts parallel the Intercultural model I have studied
at the Intercultural Communication Institute. I
use those models in my ILCT advanced training, my
Intercultural Communication training for organizations,
and the International Business class I will be teaching
in Malaysia and Hong Kong next fall (SARS permitting.) We can take most of the concepts and move them
from the macro (culture, collective) to the micro
(individual, or coaching client) and vice versa.
Let
us start with a Definition
of culture: The unique shared beliefs, values, communication
and behavior that differentiate one group from another.
The
Culturally Aware Coach...
- Is
aware of their culture and how that shapes their
mindset and practices, including their approach
to coaching. A
coach is self-aware and takes their beliefs into
account in their approach to coaching clients.
- Looks
for and celebrates the unique contributions of other
cultures, and makes productive use of these aspects. A
coach uses a strengths based approach by acknowledging
and mirroring a client's strengths.
- Is
curious, seeks to learn about other cultures; just
as coaches, in discovery, seek to learn about our
clients.
- Is
humble, not afraid to not know, asks questions,
seeks understanding. (This is #2 of the ILCT 22
Essential Elements of the Coaching Alliance) Although
be aware that in some cultures those with status
are expected to have the answers (see #5.)
- Is
respectful of the hierarchy of the culture: some
cultures have clear teacher/student roles rather
than partnerships and the coach and client will
refer to each other by title and last name rather
than first name. (Do not assume!)
Examples:
Some Asians do not believe it is appropriate to ask
questions of a person in authority. I
know of an American who was corrected for calling
a German by their first name. I understand that in
Europe a coach's credentials and degrees may have
more weight in the hiring process than in the U.S.
- Realizes
that accepting differences does not mean agreement,
but rather not judging. Recognizing
there are differences is the first step out of ethnocentrism,
which, like Level I listening (Co-Active Coaching),
filters everything through our own lens or that
of our culture.
- Is
knowledgeable of resources: telephone rates, different
time zones, currency exchanges, etc.
- Is
empathic (compassionate): able to consciously shift
perspective, adding other cultural views, and respond
appropriately without fear of losing their own (cultural)
identity.
- Evaluates
and interprets situations from those multicultural
frames of reference, for example, different approaches
to time. This corresponds to Level II listening.
Example:
The Latin cultures I have lived in and the Bahamas,
where I have traveled, have a different sense of time. Your
coaching client from another culture says they will
complete their fieldwork, action plan, or goal by
a certain date and do not. You
may want to check to see if that has more to do with
their cultural orientation to time or if something
else is getting in the way.
- Is
watchful of their language! When
in doubt, go more formal and simple (short sentences).
Know that slang and double meanings may not translate
well to different cultures.
- Is
a Level III listener: listening with intuition can
transcend cultures.
Marilyn
O'Hearne, MSW, PCC, has lived in Spain, Brazil, and
Texas and is back in Kansas City, Kansas, USA. A
'99 graduate and a current faculty member of ILCT,
Marilyn co-led one of the sessions at the ICF Vancouver
Conference on Coaching Across Borders. Most
of her clients are in transition (including into coaching,
and cultural) or are leaders. At her website, www.connectionscoaching.com,
you will find related newsletter articles. You can
contact her at marilyn@lifecoachtraining.com.
© 2003 Marilyn O'Hearne All rights reserved
Coaching
in Canada
When
I started coaching in early 1999, coaching was still
relatively unheard of in Canada. Although there was
a strong and active ICF chapter in Vancouver where
I reside, and there were other chapters around the
country, most people, including therapists, still
associated the word ‘coach' with the sports
profession. Like many places in the world, the coaching
profession has rapidly caught on here in the past
few years.
Coaching
in Canada looks much the same as it does in the US,
although there are a few differences. One of the challenges
Canadian coaches continue to face is the cost of US
training programs, given the low value of the Canadian
dollar. There are only a handful of training programs
in Canada and only one that is ICF-certified at this
time. Most Canadian coaches still choose to do their
training in the US often because the programs have
been in existence longer and have a proven track record.
Unlike
the US, Canadian therapists do not have the issues
of the US managed care system that have prompted some
to enter the coaching profession. Most therapist-turned-coaches
choose the profession because they see it as a more
positive way to work with people or they want to add
diversity to their practices.
Many Canadian coaches are increasingly
concerned about their inability to acquire liability
insurance. The ICF does not have an insurance package
available for Canadians and insurance for coaches is
virtually unavailable in Canada.
The coaching profession has a long
way to go in terms of gaining the awareness and credibility
of the majority of Canadians, and some of the particular
challenges mentioned above will surely be resolved in
the process. One thing is for certain: Coaching in Canada
is here to stay.
Juliet
Austin, MA, is a Life and Marketing Coach and Director
of the Canadian Office of ILCT. She assists coaches,
therapists and other helping professionals in attracting
clients. Juliet is a graduate of CoachU and ILCT,
and co-author of the ebook, How to Become A Coach:
A Guide for Therapists.
She makes her home in Vancouver, BC, Canada. You can
reach Juliet at coach@julietaustin.com or
visit her website at www.julietaustin.com.
Coaching
in Singapore
The word "coaching" has
been a buzzword in Singapore since the beginning of
last year. Training consultants have been tapping into
the coaching market by incorporating elements of coaching
into their programs. As to whether the trainers
themselves have gone through formal coaching training
is a question yet to be answered.
In most coaching sessions, the techniques
of mentoring, facilitating and brainstorming are most
often used. The coaching skills of exercising powerful
questioning and active listening are not fully practiced.
The concept from coaching--to let the clients discover
the answers within themselves--is not found in most
coaching sessions. In the Asian context, the coach is
often referred to as the Master or expert in the field
of work. For example, a "kungfu (Chinese martial
art) master"must be an expert before he/she can
teach his/her students. The word “coach” is
often used with reference to sports coaches in which
coaches are experts in their field of work. Therefore,
the perception of a business/executive coach is the
same. So for a coach to be able to coach a CEO of a
company, that coach must be better than the CEO, in
order to advise him/her. This
perception can be overcome by creating awareness to
educate the business community that there is a new profession
called Executive Coaching.
Currently, in Singapore there are
about four coaches listed in the ICF's Coach Referral
Service. Of the four, only one is accredited with ICF
(as an ACC) and others have attended formal coaching
training from various institutions and coaching universities. A
Singapore coaching community was formed late last year.
This community consists of about 20 people who
either currently attend coaching training or have gone
through coaching training to promote coaching and improve
coaching skills. The community holds monthly live meetings
to exchange ideas and also to practice pro bono coaching.
From
my perspective, not many people in Singapore
are receptive to paying for coaching, since they believe
that they cannot be promised of the results they want.
However, in coaching the client is accountable for
the results and not the coach. I believe the business
of coaching will increase as more companies and individuals
experience the benefits of having a qualified coach.
Ronald Tan, Personal/Executive Coach
and ILCT graduate, serves as the ILCT Representative
for the Asian Office. He is currently pursuing standing
as a Certified Life Coach. Ronald has a MBA in Strategic
Marketing. He has over twenty years experience in corporate
sales and marketing roles. Ronald has traveled extensively
in southeast Asia and resides in Singapore. He can be
reached at jasonconsult@jasonasia.com.
Going
Global, and Doing It Well
There
is a globe on my desk. When
I was a child my friends and I would set a globe spinning,
close our eyes and place our finger on the globe and
make it stop. We
would then create an imaginary adventure that would
take place in whatever country our finger landed on. Today,
the "game" is easier than ever.
All
around the globe people are learning that, despite
new viruses in the news, a healthy lifestyle is still
the best health insurance we can carry. Statistically,
in America, we have determined that about 60% of what
determines our health is all related to the lifestyle
choices we make. Knowing
that, companies continue to invest in personnel who
deliver wellness programs. Knowing
about healthy lifestyles, people are ever increasingly
investing in their own wellness.
Making
lasting lifestyle change requires more than just information.
This is where the coaching alliance proves it's worth.
Where wellness coaches shine is in helping people
to make real behavioral changes around the actions
they know they need to do for themselves. We know
how to help people make changes, and make them last. When
we combine these skills with a more developed knowledge
of the field of wellness, we can really help people
live healthier lives.
Taking it global
There
are sixteen million people in the city where I'll
be delivering a keynote on wellness this summer. It's
the second biggest city in the world. Any
idea where I'm talking about? All
too few people in the United States, anyway, would
know that I'm referring to Sao Paulo, Brazil. Can
you find Slovenia on a map? I
was fortunate enough to keynote on wellness in that
country last summer. There is a vast planet out there, and most people
on it are interested in the same things we are...living
happier, healthier lives.
With
international phone plans, calling cards, etc., it
is possible to affordably coach individuals overseas. With
e-mail facilitating communication, websites telling
the world about our services, and faxes, cell phones,
etc. at our fingertips, the globe I used to play with
seems about golf ball-sized today.
Going
global requires us to adapt our coaching, and our
wellness strategies to the environments our clients
are a part of. Urging
a stressed Thai client, for instance, to be what we
would call "appropriately assertive"might
not work in Thailand's socially sensitive culture. With
the client we co-create a new solution.
Foundation Work
Gaining
the trust and respect of international clients requires
true respect for the values and cultures of others. Be
genuinely interested in other cultures. Simply
put, be genuine.
Part
of gaining credibility and the experience necessary
to be an effective wellness coach is to take yourself
through the experience of enhancing your own health
in all dimensions of wellness. Wellness
is a holistic concept, and that means attending to
the areas that we personally avoid working on, whether
it be physical fitness, diet, spirituality, or personal
relationships. Walking
our talk attracts clients, and by the way, longevity! Give that globe a whirl.
Dr.
Michael Arloski, info@realbalance.com (www.realbalance.com)
is a coach, psychologist, trainer and speaker who
has presented on wellness on three, and soon to be
four continents. He
and Dr. Pat Williams are developing a curriculum for
an Institute For Life Coach Training program to certify
Wellness Coaches. He resides in Colorado, USA.
The
World is Our Community...Come Join Us!
International leaders, business persons
and success oriented individuals are as eager for coaching
as are our most ardent clients. It
is a big world, yet as small as the tiniest cell phone
or as fast as the slowest internet connection. For many,
language is no barrier. English is an accepted mode
of communication among those eager to succeed, within
religious organizations as in business, education or
the professions.
The world is our community. We invite
you to join us. Requirement: a burning desire. Qualifications:
world-class coaching skills. Cost: a commitment to learning
and action in a global environment.
The starting point for anyone wishing
to expand their coaching practice internationally is
Respect. A genuine respect for culture, language, customs,
and traditions and as always, the individual, will open
doors for effective coaching alliances. Having world-class
coaching skills without the commitment to learning and
practicing the fine art of international interaction
would be like a couple of NASCAR drivers trying to race
on the streets of downtown New York City at noon.
In the religious world, our missionaries
learn quickly that to minister effectively in another
culture, they must first take the time to learn about
that culture and language before they attempt to enter
it to carry out their mission. The same must be true
of coaches.
Remember your first attempts to use
listening Levels II & III and what a challenge that
was? Learning to listen and communicate on an international
level cross-culturally is an even larger challenge,
but one just as rewarding as the first.
By this point you may be asking yourself, "Do
I have the skills to work with international clients?" "Would
it be worth the effort?" To these I offer a resounding, "Yes!"Working
with an international clientele is worth any effort
we put forth, because as members of the growing global
community this is our future.
Come join us.
Here are a couple of ideas for getting
started. One idea is to hire a coach who has an effective
international practice. Work with them. Clarify your
vision of a world practice. Learn, practice and step
out with confidence.
Another suggestion is to form a friendship
with someone from another country who lives in your
present community. Learn about their culture. Ask them
to teach you their language. Experience the flavors
of their native foods. Share with them what you do as
a life coach. Tell
them of your interest in coaching internationally. Ask
if they would like to be coached. If so, you have a
wonderful opportunity to practice and adjust your skills
in a safe environment before venturing out on the international
scene. Ask them to recommend you to family members and
friends back in their home country. You'll be on your
way to an international coaching practice and your confidence
will be genuine.
by Robert D. McCall, D.Min., Life
Coach
By the time Bob was 17 and his brother Mack was 15, they "guestimated" they
had already traveled over a quarter of a million miles internationally.
That was before they started traveling to other parts of the world
in their work. As the sons of missionaries, their global connections
began early in life. Today, those connections network through 163
nations. You can contact Bob at bob@leadershiplife.com.
He is currently an ILCT student and resides in Cleveland, Tennessee,
USA.
Coaching: A European
Perspective
The field of executive coaching has
been booming in the United States for several years,
but in Europe the trend is just beginning. "Attitudes
are changing and organizations and individuals in Europe
are becoming more open to coaching," says Lynne
De Lay, CCL's [Center for Creative Leadership] feedback
and coaching manager in Europe. In a recent interview,
De Lay described the dynamics of coaching in European
organizations.
Why are European organizations
and individuals showing greater interest in coaching
than in the past?
There is a growing understanding
towards the positive nature of coaching -- that it
can enhance development and, therefore, performance.
For individuals, coaching can provide a higher degree
of personal motivation, commitment and better alignment
between individual goals and those of the organization.
This ultimately translates into improved business
results for the organization.
We have noticed that clients are
beginning to ask more sophisticated questions around
coaching. They inquire about the impact of coaching
and our coaching model, how our coaches are trained,
their qualifications, how long an individual coaching
contract is, what our coaching process is, what type
of quality controls we have, how we measure progress
made, et cetera. This indicates to us a level of acceptance
and interest that did not exist two years ago.
What are the typical reservations
European managers and organizations have about coaching?
In general, Europeans seem to think
that coaching is about "fixing something that
is wrong," that the person who is asking for
or needs a coach is deficient in some way. While this
attitude can exist in the United States, it is the
most common understanding in Europe.
Coaching also gets confused with
business consulting or therapy. In fact, some European
coaches do therapy under the guise of coaching --
with little or no regulation or standards -- which
further confuses the issue.
In addition, culturally speaking,
Europeans also tend to be more private, less ready
to share personal issues with others than Americans.
How can a European organization
move beyond the negative perception of coaching?
When CCL holds coaching workshops
in Europe, they typically have a two-fold purpose:
to develop coaching skills but also to help the organization
create a common understanding about coaching. This
is especially critical when the company initiative
in coaching crosses multiple cultures.
Another key element is to provide
assurances around confidentiality, since there is
more misuse of assessments and feedback than in the
United States. European clients greatly appreciate
CCL's commitment to confidentiality and the fact that
the individual owns his or her assessment data.
CCL approaches coaching as a collaborative
process for helping an individual to perform better
in a current job or to develop his or her future potential.
The function of a CCL coach is to create a partnership
with the individual being coached and to explore new
possibilities and challenges together. Once they learn
about it, Europeans seem very comfortable with the
collaborative nature of our coaching model.
How would a European manager
or company go about finding the right coach?
Locating the right coach is like
finding the right person to fill a key position in
your organization. Factors to consider include the
coach's philosophy of coaching, how he or she assesses
current skills and measures improvement, and how long
the coaching engagement will last.
CCL looks at several other criteria
when matching an individual client need with one of
our European coaches. We determine that the coach
is comfortable or has experience in dealing with the
specific issue or need. We see whether a coach has
coached individuals in the client's particular industry
before. We look to match the background (national
culture or language) and personality or coaching style
with the coach and coachee. To ensure that there is
a good fit between the recommended coach and the coachee,
CCL organizes a phone call or face-to-face meeting
before the actual coaching assignment starts.
This article is from the September
2002 issue of the Center for Creative Leadership's e-Newsletter,
which delivers tips, tools and advice to the practicing
manager. To subscribe to this free, monthly newsletter,
visit www.ccl.org/enews. The Center for Creative Leadership
is an international nonprofit, educational institution
devoted to leadership research and training. Center
staff members conduct research, produce publications,
and provide programs and products to leaders and organizations
in all sectors of society. For more information, visit www.ccl.org.
Reprinted with permission.
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2003 Themes (tentative)
January-Personal
evolution |
May-Update
on coaching in other countries |
September-Partnerships/affiliates
with other professionals |
February-International
Coaching Week |
June-Unusual
coaching niches |
October-Developing
packages/programs |
March-Assessments |
July-Passive
revenue |
November-Therapy
and coaching |
April-Coaching
in religious institutions |
August-Adding
speaking to your services |
December-open |
Rev. 4/7/2003
Tomorrow's Life CoachTM
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